Girlfriend help.

I just told her I need to think about if I want to give the relationship another chance and she's basically telling me no I need to decide now.... pissing me off how she can just decide in 10 seconds.

 

That means she wants to know so she knows if she can be with these other guys and flirt with other guys and shit. Trust me, I've said that to many women, mainly because I wanted to know if we were together or not, so I knew if I could make moves on other women and shit.

 

Trying to guilt trip me now. Sending me old pictures with all the "good time" and sad faces and stuff.

 

lol it's all up to you man, did the good times outweigh the bad? Is it worth the stress and shit? Tell her that old pictures of the good times and reminiscing doesn't change the fact of how she's been acting lately and doesn't change the fact of her talking to other dudes. Although she denies it, nonetheless, she's been talking to dudes.

 

Basically from here you have two options

1. Stay strong and keep the break up.

2. Now that you guys are talking it through, maybe you can work past it and stay together. However, if you do this, she might think that she can get away with talking to guys again and again and keep guilt tripping you during breakups and she might think that it'll work everytime and she'll walk all over you. Your choice.

 

x2, exactly what i was going to say

 

Why are you two texting about this? Talk to her face to face to see her reaction. It is much easier for her to lie through texting.

 

This and leave her. That's my best advice. She knows how to manipulate you and eventually she will do it more (I mean more than she used to) and once again I am saying that you will end up having lots of troubles just because she will eventually fuck another dude ( if she already didn't do this, I would be so surprised ) but really. Stop wasting your time with bitches like this, it's not worth a penny for the huge headaches that she might provoke you. Just my 2 cents.

 

We broke up. <--

 

alright alright alright, congrats on not taking her shit no more.

 

Fuck that, if my girlfriend acted like that I'd say cheerio straight away! Girls who snapchat all the time are honestly the worst kind of attention seeking arseholes this generation is unfortunately having to deal with. One of my friends takes Snapchats all the time, and she sits there like a crank trying to get a good angle and good lighting... Then she'll put filters on and send them to loads of guys and puts them on fb too. It's so frustrating cos it's so self centered and egotistical and people like that are fishing for attention and people's compliments to make themselves feel better

 

well said

 

Well congratulations on breaking up with her. It'll probably seem hard first few days (maybe even weeks) but trust me you'll get over her and you'll meet someone who isn't a complete scrub who'll be loyal, trusting, nice and not self absorbed. It'll come, don't worry - you're still obviously very young!

 

yessirr

 

From what I've learned, you can't always be the nice guy. Not saying that you have to be a dickhead 24/7 but when she gets out of line (as of now) you put her back in her place and show her who's the real boss. If she says that she's better than you at something then make her prove it and then stomp her ass at whatever she said she's better at.

On a good note, you've had your first girlfriend and now it won't be as difficult trying to get other girls because you already have an idea on what to say to them.

Edit: Sorry to bring up a dead thread, didn't see the date :s