My gf of 6 years... or a beauty??

6 years man...nothing to throw away lightly. I had a rough approximate 6 month breakup and was depressed for literally a year just because I wasn't able to find chemistry even close to what I had.

However, I did manage to get with, err, several ladies. It wasn't as satisfying though. Just a meaningless attempt to fill the void left by my ex girlfriend. & the whole time I was really hard on myself because I'm the one that broke up with her..

Think of it like this -- you have a loyal girlfriend of several years waiting out the long distance, she probably gets 10x the amount of offers to go back to some guy's place than you do to go back to some girl's yet she still says no and is probably missing the hell out of you the whole time. Doesn't that mean anything to you?

Either way, PLEASE let us know what happens. I've subbed to this thread.

 

Yo people, just to update everyone (not been on this for a while lol) I've stuck with my girlfriend and what a GREAT decision. I think sometimes you can get carried away with a little spark and forget how much the person you're with at the minute actually means to you. I couldn't imagine my life without her because she's not just lovely but all those great memories and fun times we've had have made her a part of my life. Don't get me wrong, the nurse is hot and funny, but my girlfriend is too... And she's loyal, lovely and just a great person. She's been a rock for me recently with personal shit that's been going on and my honest advice to people in a similar situation would be this: think with your heart, not your dick... Think of all the good times you've had, and ask yourself if your girlfriend is still attractive in your eyes and whether or not you could see yourself with her in another 5 or 6 years time... And would you miss her or get jealous if she got with someone else and would you lose the love of your life?


We've had great times, she's still hot and I trust her completely. I can see myself with her later in life and I thought to myself... "maybe it's not the distance that's the problem, maybe it's just me trying to justify wanting to sleep with the nurse".

After speaking to my girlfriend more, doing more stuff with her and actually grafting at our relationship, we're back to being completely in love - and that's all I want from my gf (other than bjs)

 

Good choice, otherwise you would be a goddamn cheater

 

Don't stay with your girl just because you've invested so much time into it. Sometimes it's just time for change

edit: read your last post. Good to hear it worked out

 

What a great decision. If you're attracted by other woman it's not that of a big deal but something normal, it would be so different if you would just love that nurse and wanted to be with here instead of your actual gf. Great choice once again bro and hope you both do well.

 

You made a good choice. +1 to you sir.

 

Who says you need to go for just 1?

Ah read ur 2nd post 1 respect ur choice mate.

 

Locking as decision made Well done, dood.