Couldnt cum - should I see a doctor?

I asked out a girl and this was the second date. After a while we began to mess around and it got to the point where I was fondling and fingering her while she gave me a handjob. After about 30 minutes the movie ended and we slowed down. She was able to "finish" but I didn't. Some facts:

- I'm 16 years old
- I have never masturbated or felt the desire to
- I have ejaculated at night via "wet dreams"
- I am doing constant athletic activity
- This was my first time going to "second base"
- The movie theater was relatively full and we noticed people giving us looks at points
- I take a medication named Solodyn to help with my skin

Does this seem like a one off thing? I felt pleasure from it but I didn't ever orgasm. I'm hoping it is because I don't want her disappointed if we go further and she can't cause me to.

 

1.6% of people suffer a lessened sex drive due to solodyn, although if you haven't really had an urge/desire to masturbate, ever then maybe that is something you should see the doctor about, not sure if its normal but i haven't heard of it before, although it can't be healthy as ejaculation releases toxins and supposedly prevents prostate cancer.

I'd consult your doctor ASAP, i have a feeling it wouldn't be the acne meds though, may be just the nerves from illegally receiving/giving a hand job in public, the fear of being caught and the other people possibly looking at you that prevented you from climaxing.

 

Some people just have no sexual desire/needs. So thats just personal preference.

If you are trying but cant.. try masturbating and experimenting watching porn or something.. if the problem persists then you probably should

 

I had this kind of problem when i was younger. But I tried seeing porn and masturbating, just try and find a sexy girl in xvid**** with which you will get hard and don't stop masturbating. If this doesn't work then go see a doctor. Don't panic.

 

Honestly this sounds like a late bloomer deal. You migt not be fully pubescent. Try watching some porn, see if you get an erection and go from there.

Another potential problem could be handjobs are simply fucking awful. I have received a few in my younger years and they could never finish me either..??

 

First of all, why would do you that in a full movie theatre? Just be lucky your ass didn't get thrown out... or worse.

Anyways it's probably because it was your first time and you were nervous. Same thing happens to some guys when they have sex the first time.

 

Has there been any update on this? If you were nervous that may have been a reason that you were not able to ejaculate properly. I wouldn't recommend someone's first time being in a movie theater with people. It may create an awkward feeling which may have also been part of the problem. Clearly you have a thing with this women. Why not just take care of business elsewhere? Possibly in a more private setting and see if you end with the same results. Go from there you're still young mate you may just be hitting puberty late. We call those late bloomers and honestly it's not a big deal.

 

You were probably too nervous I probably would be too in a movie theater... Try at home.

 

I'm 22 and had this issue when I first started dating my girlfriend, it was just emotional stress I'm pretty sure because it only happened one or two times. First time was in my bed and I was fingering her and sucking on her tits, while she jerked me off and I couldn't cum.

Second time she wanted to have sex and I couldn't get hard. She let me put on porn and she even sucked me off which she only did for her first ever boyfriend and only does it if she likes the guy a lot and I still couldn't get hard or cum. It should go away as you start dating her more, however, be sure to let her know that it was just because you were nervous or stressed, because after those two times, my gf never sucked me or jerked me ever again and we only ever had sex from then on.

 

Or it could be as simple as you are not at that stage yet.

1. Have you started puberty or shown signs of it?
2. Did you find pleasure in it?

be honest your only helping yourself

 

your junk should be working at that age, id go see a doctor

 

This is my broscience diagnosis as well, I couldn't cum from my first HJ/BJ either, they aren't a seasoned masturbateur of your junk and anxiety or something may have gotten in the way.

 

Some people just don't have any desire for sex and are not turned on by the slightest of movements, I believe you do not need a doctor. But that is just my personal Opinion.

 

This happened to me too. That situation was so awkward and my gf just went sad just because she thought I don't like her. Bad situations my friend, bad situations. This happened when i was 17.

 

Damn dude that's sketch. Even with my current girlfriend whom I know is capable of getting me off I don't think I could get off in a movie theater. Especially since you know people were looking at you I think it was anxiety. It'll go away