Wheres the line drawn for cheating?

So, me and my best friend for the past week or so have been flirting really intensely, and started sexting (pictures, really graphic texts, pretty much phone sex via texting). She has a boyfriend, but he's in jail but she apparently still "loves" him even though she's been doing this with me for a week or so now. This isn't the first time either, this has just been the first time it's involved pictures.

This is cheating, is it not? Now she says she feels guilty and wants to go back to just being friends, but i don't know how I can that fast after all of this happening.

What should I do? I go home in two weeks and we're gonna be hanging out together a lot.

 

He's in jail, I wouldn't worry about it too much really...

On the other hand...HE'S IN FUCKING JAIL.

Take that as you want.

 

@Panda,
It was apparently for something like he was 19 and had sex with a 17 year old or something. I haven't met him, nor do I really want to.

 

I was in a similar situation where a girl really came onto me during the winter holidays even though she had a boyfriend (not in jail tho ) - the flare died out quickly and things became awkward quickly. If I were you I would agree to be just friends, and if you really like her then confess that

 

well, if you dont get caught its not cheating

 

That is cheating yes.

I would go to just being friends to avoid the awkward tension...but if she's hot... Another story

 

What should you do? Get some dignity and not cheat with girls that have boyfriends. And besides, would you not rather have a committed relationship with someone you know is faithful or is that just me?

 

If she'll cheat with you, she'll cheat on you.

 

Yes it's cheating and if she is doing that to someone else what's stopping her from doing it to you if you two are together?

 

Quoted for truth.

 

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Lol'd at this.

Anyway, I know that you're banned but I'll respond anyway. Would it be cheating if your girlfriend starting sending nudes and dirty texts to another guy? Yeah I think you'd say so, and so would I.

This X1000, you're not alone in that.

Yep, I've told you about my experience with this lol.

 

Treat others the way you want to be treated.

 

if she really loves him, she just wants some action. Tell her to stop, and wait. If he stuck in there for a decade (or a bit less) then she can pretty much do what she likes i guess, its up to you to draw the line