A Problem

Well, basically short story short, I like this girl "ALOT"

I want to ask her out, but I don't want to be judge in doing so.

I'm pretty smart, just have some issues with grammar when typing.
I'm in the high mainstream, which is pretty damn good, where she is the select entry (Extremely smart Peoples)

We are friends, that all I know, we talk now again, since I take the train now.
I'm not sure, if I should just ask her out or wait to the time is right? Which is a long time from now :/

Help me,
The Prime

 

If you don't know her that well, and more so are acquaintances, I'd start of by asking her to coffee. Get to know each other slightly more, and go from there.

Coffees are always great. Laid back, inexpensive, 1 on 1 and if you're a smart lad and good conversationalist, it's perfect for you.

 

Go for it! Worst she can say is no.

Well she can probably say much worse but don't think about that.

 

Just ask her out man, but do it in person, no texting, no facebook or whatever. Don't beat around the bush either, tell her you like her a lot and wanna take her on a date and get to know her better.

On that note, don't do movies as a first date, do something where you can actually talk with her.

 

Look, I'm going to be straight forward with you.

If you keep her as a friend too long, she will not say yes or feel like you guys are just "friends" if you asked her out aka friend zone.

You claim that you guys are already friend so at least she knows you. Just simply ask her "to hang out" if your feeling shy (people always want to hang out). If your feeling confident, just ask her out. You see what the differences? If your not so confident, asked her to "hang out" sometimes in the future by going walking or seeing some local area. If your confident, simply just tell her "I know we're only friends but would you like to go out in the near future.. like friday".

Remember, there's always a risk AKA you get rejected and the friendship falls apart BUT you get the problem out the way and you won't be friend-zone forever.

 

well, since i'm 15, just going to ask her out , wait after school when we wait at the bus stop, and there say, "I would like to ask you something, I would like to know, if you would let me be your boyfriend."

I am afraid but i'm not,

BTW, I don't drink coffee, and she is only 15 as well, Child love

Haven't talked to her for a couple weeks, I so freaked out, should of asked her out last year....


I will most likely take the bus, just to see her, then ask her out.

 

Don't do that...unless you both know each other relatively well.

By coffee I don't mean you have to drink coffee, you can have anything. A hot chocolate, soda, cake...whatever tickels your fancy.

Go to a nice cafe/restaurant (places with an outside area are always great).

 

Young love. I didn't realize you were that young, you should asked her if she wants to hang out a couple times instead of asking her straight up. Maybe after the 2-3 time then you could ask her out. Usually a relationship starts after hanging out with one another for a while.

Also that's sounds too forceful and... early?. If you want to go that approach then I suggest you to ask her "Hey, I'm going to ask you a simple question. Would you go out with me on a date". If everything goes well on your date then you asked her if she wants to be your girlfriend.

These are the simple step:

Ask to hangout/date:
If accepted - Think of something to do locally that's fun and you guys could talk a lot. A simple walk could be good enough
If rejected - Ugh, I suggest you to stay freind still but don't get in her way

After hangout/date:
If positive - Proceed to another date until you feel comfortable with her
If rejected - Tell her it was great getting to know her more but would like to stay friends still. Things just aren't meant to be.

After a couple dates:
Naturally people are just going to think you guys are couple and you just ask her if you want to be a couple.

GL OP

 

if you decide to ask her out, just be straight up and say it. although I suggest you wait until you're a bit older cause in my experience most 15-16 year old relationships end up bad. You're both too immature..

 

You should probably be good friends for a while first, get to know each other. Don't just dive in there

 

i hear dat famo-
first things first - don't be a pussy
secondly - defo don't make it a friendship thing because thats when it gets confusing you'd basically cock block yourself ( what im saying is do little things that show her your true feelings like nice after shave get a bit closer than usual look into her eyes when u speak to her? sht like that
thirdly - try get her number and talk to her on the phone or facebook or whatever when you get home
make these convos exciting ( talk about the weekend what your planning to do
and then maybe try slip in there that you two could go out sometime because you got nothing to do that weekend or something
once you hit the date as long as you dont do too much fucked up sht , you should be fine famo
holla man on pm if u need advice

 

Well since your both still young, i'd say be friends with her for now just ask her what her plans are for the weekend or after school on the bus ride or some thing, after you get to know each other well enough if there is a connection i'm sure it will progress on it's own from there.

 

Listen to your heart! Got for it, you're young and if she does say no.. I doubt you'd even remember it in 1, 2, 3 weeks, months or years! Take her ice skating, movies all that first date stuff. Procrastinating is only time for someone else to ask her first!

 

I think you should be willing to take the risk and ask her out

However, if you two haven't really been talking or spending much time together, I'd suggest that you try to hang out with her a few times before asking her to be your girlfriend out of the blue.

 

we used to talk every day, but I took the train, as it's much quicker, I may wait a couple years, till I'm ready, I'm do busy with school and working and my work.

I'm bit of a whimp, in that way (I know her for about year now, talked for about 10 months before I started taking the train

 

If you wait, you will lose her. Do not wait. I'm really happy to see that you care about your school and work first but don't be torn apart if she finds another person. Do it soon and get it over with (yes and no answer is better then no answer) If yes, congratulation. If no, focus on school/work and move on. GL

 

Whoa man DON'T ask her with this. Just casual with her, if it seems really awkward chances are she will treat it that way. Don't plan HOW to ask her out just do it like you would in a normal way. In fact, keep the actual asking out hidden and get to know her first. At least hang out once (i.e movies, at the mall, during free period) before making a move.

 

Play your cards and start off by getting her number, texting and flirting. If she's into you, you'll notice. Invite her to hangout, watch a movie and cuddle, anything that'll get you two closer.

Don't be afraid to swallow your courage and tell her how you feel. Worst that could happen is she says No, and then you move on to the next.

 

Don't own a phone yet, I have her on facebook, In Australia it's much different I see what you guys mean, but yeah

 

You know what you should do now, now go do it!