Should I be with a girl who has cheated on her past boyfriends?

Should I be with a girl who has cheated on her past boyfriends?

Here's a bit of background.
Met a girl in Oregon and she is lovely, I love spending time with her and think she is great, but she cheated on all of her past boyfriends and when drunk likes to mess around (rarely sex if ever but she gets off with many lads) so I am worried about being in a relationship.

My plan was to get with her and if she cheats just dump her off but I'd like some advice and thoughts on the matter.

Thanks, J.

 

It honestly depends on how much you like her, J. If she has a history with it (and you know she does, it isn't just rumours), then it's likely she'll do it again. It all depends on how much you're willing to risk it. I think that you'd probably be worried about what she's doing any time she's out of your sight, and it wouldn't be conducive to a decent relationship. I think the only person who can truly decide whether she's for you is yourself, as we're only getting part of the story at best.

 

if you're just tryna hit it, then by all means getcha knob slobbed.

but relationship? naa. no need to waste ya time on sum goblin ass ho who'll just cut ya feelings in half when she goes to a party and ends up suckin three dudes off in a closet. there's plenty of other girls who (probably) won't pull that kind of shit on you.

 

It sounds like she isn't someone that you want to get into a relationship with. How will it feel 6 months down the road when you really develop feelings for her and you hear that her mouth has been on another dudes dick?

I know personally I'd have a really hard time with a relationship like that. I'm an extremely jealous and (at times) possessive person and having that to worry about would really drive me crazy. Plus having intimate moments with her wouldn't feel as special knowing that she gives them out so easily.

Idk, maybe I'm more sensitive to that thing than most people. All I can say is that your post raises many red flags in my mind. I personally wouldn't even consider it.

 

Dude if she has cheated before,She will cheat again and loyal to da game really couldn't have said it any better. If you really want a serious relationship,For me that'd be a no-go. She aint going to be genuine if she wasnt before,Once a cheater,always a cheater. I mean yeah if you're just in it to hit it,Go ahead. But serious relationship dude,Id say no but if you're still thinking about it,So some heavy considering.

 

The simple answer: No.

Once a cheat, always a cheat. It's not worth the worry in the relationship. So just find another girl

 

See, I just can't be blunt enough to say that lol, I always have to at least mention that in some cases he should decide to see if it will work out.

 

It depends. A high percentage of youth these days have cheated at least once. If you're going to set high standards you may find that your options are limited. I would consider the semantics behind why she cheated in the first place. If she seems like a wild card then I would avoid the relationship, however if her reasons are justified then you might want to think it over before giving it a definitive "no."

 

That's sort of along the lines of what I was saying, you're only getting half the story at best OP about her history, she may have been with abusive boyfriends or things along those lines.

 

She wasn't in an abusive relationship at all
I have all ready tapped anyway so that's why I'm worried about relationships

The relationship she was in lasted for 2 years

 

How old are you? And her too.

 

There is a old saying ; A person who is that at it's 7 will be on his 70.

So , No.

 

If she has truly remorsed, and is willing to work for your trust, which includes being entirely faithful to you, you should give her a chance. It seems like shems really made an impression on you. If you both were truly to enjoy blissful happiness, and if she is serious about it, she will change. The past is the past, and everyone should be given a chance to repair themselves if they are presented it with a golden pot at the end of the rainbow.

 

Once a cheater always a cheater, unless shes far past her getting drunk and hooking up with guys stage i'd say stay friends with her if anything.

 

I'm sure its been said before, but once a cheater, always a cheater!

 

Yah you're not gonna be any different dude. If you don't feel too attached I'd go for it but if you think she'll end up hurting you it's not worth it. Trust me from experience.

Oregon hippie girls though mm

 

If this was all happening during a two year "committed" relationship relationship I'd definitely say avoid this.

 

This. Not worth your time to be in a relationship with her. If you do decide to take it slow and really take time time to feel out the situation.

 

Nah man, if she cheated on every boyfriend and she gets promiscuous while drunk. Shes going to cheat on you too. Keep her as a friend with benefits.

 

nope.