Fucking the Friendzoned bitch

So I met this girl last year after I got out of a long 4 year relationship and we have been partying every weekend for months now and after every drunk night I end up in her bed and we fuck, the weird part is there is like no connection between us emotionally its all fuck buddy status but it seems like a toxic situation, this chick is a good friend to me and it has been going on for a good six months now but can this be destined to become a disaster.

 

Personally I believe if you haven't got a committed relationship, there's nothing wrong with having a friend with benefits. I mean, just going off what you've said, it doesn't seem like neither you or her have a problem with it. Just make sure she knows where the line is once a relationship comes about.

But I do see where awkwardness could come up. Ultimately it's up to you, if you think that having sex with a good friend could end up in a disaster, then don't do it.

 

Its one of those situations, and the reason I posted it here is I am looking for responses and don't necessarily have any true issues (yet) but its like a situation I am looking for support but don't know why. In my opinion its not gonna end like "Hey lets stop fucking" i feel like it always has to be a toxic reason but I could be wrong.

 

If you're 100% sure she has no connection, it's healthy, don't sweat it. I've had lots of friends with benefits and usually ends with the girl getting more involved than we originally agree'd.

You claim you have no emotional responsibility to her, if that's the situation for her just enjoy yourself. You'll be able to tell when she thinks it's more than fwb.

 

It's been 6 months, I'm pretty sure if feelings were going to get involved they would of already, unless she's hiding it. Just as fresh said, there's nothing wrong with having friends with benefits, the only time you're going to run into trouble is if she admits her feelings to you, or you start to have feelings, but for now it seems fine seeming it's been happening for 6 solid months.

 

it sounds like there is still a connection between you two..

 

As every film / person will tell you... it hardly ever works out. Until then, have fun with it lol. What's the worst that can happen? One of you guys gets rejected and you guys stop violating each other... best thing that could happen? six months of bonkin'.

Have your fun and steer clear of diseases. Six months in, I'd have expected someone to say something hmm.

 

Did you even read the thread? What do you mean still? There never was to begin with. Even still, how does it sound like that? Because they're having sex? Unless she took his virginity or he took her virginity, there shouldn't be an forceful emotional connection. A forceful emotional connection only arises in sex when it involves taking ones virginity.

Anywho, as everyone else has said, if you don't feel anything and she doesn't either, then go for it. People fuck all the time who aren't together. Just make sure it won't get in the way of a real relationship, should you or her happen to find one. Be sure that you guys can stop on a dime, and that it won't continue if you or her find someone you're interested in.

 

I've never heard of a case were this has worked out..
I'd say you can either carry on, but don't expect the best to happen.
Or break it off and keep her as a friend.

 

That's my point I have never heard of it working.

 

In my experiences, the girl in the situation is usually the one to develop feelings. However, none of my experiences has lasted as long as yours - being said, maybe you should just talk to her and confirm she's still ok with the situation.

 

Yea any other time I fucked someone it was a duck and fuck kind of thing or a relationship not truest fwb status

 

Dave, I just want to put it out there is 10 year old kids who surf this fucking site. (which should be ban due to the fact half off them are here to scam) "So be careful about your swearing"

But naaaa, just ask her, see if she has fealings as you don't want to make her feal bad if you break up with her or something

 

Just keep her as a good friend and continue to do what your doing, like you said there's no emotional interest, just sexual. Until one of you either gets interested in the other, or ends up dating some one else, i see don't see anything bad happening because of it.

 

Thanks mr. moderator
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OT: yea that seems to be the plan keep doing what I am doing until something changes

 

It would be hard if you get feelings for her, so don't try to develop one ( I mean, if you wanna then it's fine ).

 

Well, either you, or her, are hiding feelings. It could be bad if you don't watch out!

 

This could be true but I guess its possible it could just be the perfect situation lol.

 

You can't just assume things like this. She may be physically attracted to him without being emotionally attracted; it's a possible situation. In my opinion she wants the pleasure without all the luggage of a relationship. Deem yourself lucky.

 

I'd continue to do it, but make sure you ask yourself - would you care if she were to do the same with another guy? Would there be any jealousy involved? Also vise versa with her in regards to you too.