I'm 19 year old, and my boyfriend is a 14year old kid.

I say have sex with the kid let him get some if you really like him then it'll show whether you have real feelings for each other. You can't love someone without having sex first.

 

Once you become in your twenties, nobody will think anything of it, it's just while there's that age boundary, because if it was a 19 year old man and a 14 year old girl it'd be massively unacceptable in society. I'd say stick with it though.

 

Yeah, The charge if you do sleep with him is called "Statutory Rape" So, If you wanna get in trouble... Go ahead. The picture looks like you two are the same age though haha.

 

This is the most stupid comment I've ever heard.
I'm assuming you're about 12-14 and don't even know what love is.

Not only are you condoning underage sex, your basing love completely on sex, which is complete bull.

 

It's almost 2 months of us being in a relationship We do fight like kids and get mad at each other, but deep inside, I know he loves me, 'cause if he doesn't, he would surely leave me 'cause of such a huge age difference. Thank you everyone for their opinions, and we already said that we won't have sex unless we get "married".

 

Some more pics of us together

 

You really should do stuff togethor I think it'll bring you both a lot closer.

 

I'd say stop dating and just be friends until he hits a more mature age

 

Saying that he's mature for his age is silly. Everyone is different regardless; those boundaries regarding maturity don't have anything to do with his age. My friends have yet to accept the fact that I'm dating a 19-year-old (I'm 16). This has been going on for almost a year, we went off once though and they were relieved, but you'll be attracted to who you're attracted you. You can't necessarily help the feelings, but you can restrict yourself from getting in trouble, which is your number one priority. As it is his. There's nothing wrong with it (except in the eyes of your parents and friends possibly, and the law). It's not illegal though. So why not? I wouldn't have guessed (based on the pictures) that you guys have that age difference, or that he's even 14/you're 19 for that matter. Just don't get caught up in the legal difficulties and you'll be fine. If you think it's truly worth it, go for it. It's ultimately your decision. Also, try not to call him a kid to anyone. Acknowledging the fact that he's a child won't make it easier. He'll want to see himself as your equal, not as a child. Don't bother lying to anyone, or saying that he's your brother when there's a misunderstanding. Be proud about your relationship, and if you have to shield yourself, maybe you shouldn't be in the relationship in the first place. You could always wait.

To anyone who has told her to have sex with him, stop lol. That's the most idiotic thing to say about a situation like this.

 

Eh, it's looked down upon more if it's a guy dating a younger girl. I was 16 dating a girl that was 23 years old and no one said anything.

 

Ya, I'm Indian and my parent's tried to set me up with some other Indian chick I told them that I don't do that shit and want to stay with someone who I love. Trust me Indian parents are stricked as hell too they go completely by tradition.

 

To be honest, wait until he is of legal age to do anything sexual and you should be fine. Maybe don't make it "official" for awhile, wait until he is of legal age. Sure people may tease him that he hasn't had a girlfriend since he was 13, but it'll be worth it when he is 16 (or whatever your area's legal age of consent is) and he can say that you are his girlfriend.

 

This is obviously someone who's never been in love, as the bolded and underlined section is completely false.

I say why not and see how it grows. 20 years from now, those 5 years will mean nothing. People will say he's too immature or what not, but I completely disagree. Some kids just mature faster than others, and can truly love someone by that age. Wait a few years, and see if the feelings stay, and then you can go after a more serious relationship. For now, i'd stick to just a non-physical relationship, as that could lead to some trouble for you.

Best of luck.

 

Damn, I recently ended things with a chick since she was 18 (I just turned 23), the age gap was just too much for me (granted she was a junior in college). Personally I'd call it off since it's too taboo, but to each their own. Honestly if you guys aren't doing anything physical the transition to just being friends should be fairly smooth.

 

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