Need advices on a girl (Just honest opinions)

Hey guys, I am in need of some advice, here's the deal:

I met this girl 2 weeks ago, she currently has a boyfriend (6-7 months relationship I think - but keep in mind she keeps telling me shes tired of him) the first day we met each other we instantly matched (if thats the correct term), I mean we had things in common, she flirted with me, I could tell she sorta liked me by the way she looked at me.

So 2 days after that night I came across her in the street and we exchanged phone numbers, she told me she wanted to hang out again... I am kinda shy the first times, so I didnt text her, but yesterday she texted me and while talking I told her like "We never saw each other again " and she said like "yeahh!! we should see each other", so we were going to hang out tonight, I told her I would be at her house at 9 to take her out for dinner, and she replied with some sort of excuse telling me she had to help his aunt or idk, but she said like "we should still see each other during the week", like what should I do? I mean she has a boyfriend, yet she was going to hang out with me, but then she came up with an excuse, what can I do? Sorry for the spelling mistakes

 

Sounds like a dumb slut to me, stay away. If she's willing to cheat with you she's willing to cheat on you.

She has no regard to her boyfriend, if she was "tired" of him she would drop him, logically. She still has intentions of being with him and possibly you. Save yourself the time, money and drama.

 

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Also, if you really do like her, you shouldn't be homewrecking like that even if she did lose feelings for her boyfriend. Your best bet is to just wait it out and prevent yourself from going out on dates while she has her boyfriend before serious shit happens.

 

You sound like a kid, if you are, go out and have some fun. Hell, the girl wants to see you so why not? "She has a boyfriend" as long as you keep it temporary, don't worry.

If she's a dumb slut, she'd be sending you pics asking you for quick sex. Use your head, and go have some damn fun.

 

Do you have any prior experience with the opposite sex?

Just because she's a slut doesn't mean she'll send pictures of herself. There's other benefits of having a man under your influence aside from sex. Some girls just like to play, some want material benefits, some want sex, some just want a different emotional state aside from their current relationship.

She's obviously doing one of the above manipulations noted, regardless you don't need to waste your time with her.

 

Take the stick out. Going out with a girl isn't a science that you need to fucking pick apart and speculate for hours. Have fun, use enough common sense to not make a life changing mistake like getting her pregnant, and make a mistake. World is full of mistakes, makes life fun.

 

I'm not disagreeing with your "have fun" comment, quite the contrary. I disagree with the statement insinuating "if she doesn't send you dirty pictures, she's not a slut".

If he is young, he may possibly take that advice the wrong way.

 

Well I'm assuming he's not stupid too. You can't take my advice too literally. If she makes a bunch of innuendos, implying she wants to have sex she's a dirty slut. If she's just toying around and flirting, no harm no foul.

 

Have you tried talking to her about it and gauging where she is at with it all? I would do that first open communication is a huge step in friendships or relationships.

 

Depends what are you are looking for. A relationship? Definitely not with this girl.

 

Frankly, this girl seems toxic from what you've said. If I were in your shoes, I'd expect her to be trying to manipulate me, and I'd drop her like a rock

 

just get a beej and forget about her. total sloot

 

If your wanting to just hang out once with her and never again, then it's your choice, as far as dating a girl who acts shady like that i'd say stay away from that. If she's willing to go behind her BF and chill with you then she'll do it to anyone, she could of had plans with her BF that day when she told you she couldn't hang as well. Who knows.

 

Put yourself in her boyfriend's shoes, for all you know he really likes/loves this girl.

 

I decided I want to stay away from her, I am probably gonna come across her again some friday night but I will just try to avoid her... I mean she texts me and also keeps posting facebook stuff about his boyfriend, so this situation will just drive me crazy if I get involved

 

And say she does leave her boyfriend, do you really want to date the type of girl that leaves her man like that?

 

stopped reading here

break them up then date her. dont make her a cheater.

He'd probably kill you sooner or later. seriously.


or just give up. if you need to ask for advice on here its probably not ment to be.

 

Wouldnt bother with her mate

 

Don't acquire yourself a life of fucking hell, just for some ass.

Stay away.

 

Wait till she isn't with somebody before starting to fuck around with her.