Girls crazy

Well me and my (don't know what's going on) girlfriend.. Ex girlfriend.. God knoes here's how it goes.. Basically we got together then after 2 months she decided to move in with me, my grandparents and little sister also live here, the reason being is because she lives 4 hours away at the other end of the country so to start off with it was long distance, so.. After around 8 months of being with her then started the arguements and fights ect.. It was always happening most day and most omit was stupid shit because she would start something then getting angry aggressive at me wold obviously start back because she wouldn't leave it alone and just go on and on till I did start back well recently she left to her dads and we said we would see eachother 1 time a week for a few days and then we were working things out and didn't see eachother for like a week and she came back to visit me but now my gran has a problem with her staying ect because what she has put me through but the last arguements we had before she left she was hitting me scratched me and shit obviously I'm not going hit her back (you don't hit girls) but that's also what my mum is unhappy about her acting like that towards me. So now she's left today and she basically said we can't be together because of my family now disliking her and she wouldn't be able to come down here and see me, she wouldn't have anywhere to stay ect.. It's just a really fucked up situation all confused :S it's not really a question people just thought I would let out what I'm feeling like.

 

She sounds toxic. Remove yourself from the situation, and officially tell this girl good bye it's the best thing for you to do and your family is just looking out for you. How old are you by the way?

 

I'm almost 20 mate, hmm..

 

Looks like you need to find a way to move out and get your own place (regardless of the girl).

Then if you want you could offer her to stay and your family couldn't have shit to say about it.

 

I can move out I can afford it, just not completely ready yet :/

 

Don't get back with her. Listen to your family.
Are you going to stay with someone who acts like a total retard? No. So there is no point in getting back with her.

Find a nice girl that doesn't cause arguments, hit you etc etc.
I've been with my girlfriend for nearly 9 months now and we haven't had one argument.. Closest we have had to an argument is when she ate the last red skittle and I was like "WTF they are my favourite"... Just keep looking and don't worry about girls like that.

I know you're probably feeling sad or something, but you naturally will because she was in your life for a while. It will soon pass and you wont give a shit about her

 

Listen to your gran homie. Ya girl aint fittin the bill.

Also, next time dont let the girl move in with you until you've been dating for at least a year and a half of absolute smooth sailing, otherwise you're stepping into the danger zone

 

Like everyone else said you need to get her out of your life. If she's physically abusing you then you have should get rid of her because she may get worse in future. With that being said, don't just totally stop contact with her straight away. Try and help her get her life sorted out (find her a place to stay, make sure she can support herself, etc.) but don't get involved with her again. After you're confident she can look after herself stop the contact.

 

Drop the Girl, she is abusing you man, SHE Isn't worth the price.... SHE SHOULD LEARN 2 LIVE LIFE. Maybe tell her your feelings if you do indeed in love her, I am a 15 yearold kid mate I love this girl at school, but I am afraid do not make the same mistakes tell her before it gets too real I seen it happen to people

 

You're 20 years old and living with your grandma. You've had a long term girlfriend, no offense but its time for you to move on with your life ;S