Yet another girl situation...

Update teaser: Phew, a very crazy few days, and yet still more to come. Wow, too long to write but I am saying stick around because this plot has a CRAZY twist. Damn, this is like a freakin' novel now. Need to keep you guys entertained and get awesome advice. Thanks for all who posted, and keep an eye out, still more updates to come.

 

This is intredasting... I think you're almost in the "friend-zone"... I think she likes his boyfriend but wants you to be the "friend" who just listens and helps her. Imho.

 

Lol can't wait to see what's up now. Question though, after all this stuff you've seen about her and everything, you still digging her?

 

This is getting good. Definitely a good read! Keep up the updates!

 

Update: Please grab your favorite snack and drink - Alrighty then, I am sitting relaxed at the keyboard to tell you the events that happened last week. Okay so we left off where my coworker was giving her a hug in the back while I saw. I will try to compress this story, but make it interesting as well.

So after that I was in my car thinking, I wasn't really phased at first, I was just thinking (in my head) "Ah, he's the one that hugged her, of course she would just put her hands around him too, just to make nothing awkward for him. Their just friends..." But as I'm driving home re-evaluating that situation, I remember her smile. I just couldn't tell if it was real or not... Also the other co-workers "rooting" for them hugging, just saying a few things that you say as if you were in high school and your friend was hugging some girl/boy (some bullcrap like that, you know what I mean?)

Was that event just something that she didn't care for, or was she excited that she was getting attention? Now reaching closer to home, I was pissed about this. I guess you can say my jealously was starting to take over, and couldn't stand that fact that she was hanging around him. Getting into my street, then in my driveway - I started to cool down.

I got upset about a situation in the past before like this, but an old friend told me this saying that made an imprint in my brain. "Don't sweat the hoes." He'd always say. Saying it out loud (in a calm tone), I was back to regular - but she was still stuck in my mind hugging him. So I a little upset about it. I only ate one meal that day, so I figured I go out to dinner, because food always takes away the mild depression for a little. (No I'm not fat, I'm actually underweight, no I'm not anorexic - lol.)

So I ate a delightful meal, then ventured back home. Got back on the comp, posted my update on here, then went to sleep thinking of whats to come for these next few days. Alright I'm going to much into detail, let me try to speed things up.

Right, so the next day comes. So I figured let me just go with the flow and see how things go. The main plan was to confront my rival (cool co-worker) at the end of the night, in a non-offensive manner and talk about this situation. Well towards the end of the night, I was with her and another co-worker cleaning things up. So she was telling me that her ex-boyfriend contacted her and was coming over her house to pick up his stuff, and she told me that she said "No, that I'm not even home - I'm at work" She was then saying he doesn't understand and all this bologna. (She told me this on the day we had the 30 min convo). So I sort of cut her off saying "Yeah I remember you told me last night."

So we continue, and my co-worker starts conversation with her. He then later on gets to the question "So do you like anyone now?" She then said yeah, and he continued to question by saying "Who?" She then replied by saying "It's someone when I started working here". So I jump in saying "Uh oh, <co-workers name> cracking the case." - Trying to be funny. My co-worker kept questioning her, and eventually I just said jokingly "She likes me!" But then I said just kidding and laughed. She just did a light laugh.

So the end of my shift comes, so I get my stuff and get ready to peace out. Looked around for my rival for about 5 minutes, nothing - finally someone said "Oh yeah he left". No sign of her or my rival (cool coworker) around. So I get outside the doors of the building to see my rival smoking a cigarette on the bench chair, and talking on the phone. She is also there near him standing up walking back and forth. I am basically 4 feet away from them when I get out the building (to get a better visualization).

So I just say Whats up to her. She says "Nothin' were just waiting for <rival's> ride. I just say "Ahhh okay" then say peace to them. Walking in the parking lot, my back facing them, grabbing my keys, getting pissed off again just like yesterday. Start the car, same routine to head home. As I drive away I can still get a view of my work for a little. As I leaving, I can see her sitting right next to him. She is sitting close. Now I'm frustrated at this again.

I use my friends saying "Don't sweat the hoes, don't sweat the hoes" to calm my nerves. Doesn't seem to be as effective this time. Get home, mildly upest about the event. Went to sleep, the plan for tomorrow is to confront the co-worker without her around.

Next day - Damn, I start a early shift today and my rival comes in later. This situation is going to get worse if I don't get this shit settled. Figured only way to settle this is to talk to him on the phone. (Because I would be gone by the time he came in.) So I gave him a call, was heading to work while talking to him. I kept it completely real. I told him "You know I'm down for the saying Bros before Hoes." He said yeah, agreeing with me.

So I told him I got a little situation. He said "About what?" I told him "It's about <girls name>." He was silent, so I continued quickly to tell him my situation. I then told him, that I really liked her and we went to the movies (Not sure if I told you that we went to the movies in my previous posts.) I also told him that I'd given her a few rides home. I then continued saying I see her starting to hang out with you recently. He said calmly (remember were keeping this civil) "Yeah she actually spent the night over." I was suprised, so I said "Oh really?" - "Yeah". (again civil)

So I then said "Yeah I just wanted to let you know so theirs no conflict, you know? I don't know if you like or not so I wanted to talk to you about it." He then said "Naa man I don't like her like that, I'm not really looking for a relationship." This relieved me in person - but wait keep reading, here comes the climax! So things are pretty cool over the phone, so I can hear a little bit of discomfort in his voice, he then replies with "Well...I already fucked her though..." Shocked, I replied "Really!?" He then said "Yeah...we fucked like...two times, I kinda didn't want to tell you because I didn't want you to be mad."

Still in shock, thoughts rapidly pacing in my mind - I replied "Wow...really? Thats legit man, thats what up about you being honest about it - thats legit." I then told him that I respect him for telling me the truth. We then went on, I told him about her "ex-boyfriend" - telling him my theory that I think she is a liar. He said he doesn't know. But he told me, those past two nights she spent over, she asked him if he was jealous that we went out. He said "No, why would I be jealous?". I then told him, I bet this girl is trying to make us clash heads together just for her entertainment. We then agreed that, and that we ended the conversation on good terms.

Next day I come in to a co-worker mad at me, saying that I was talking crap about her. Now I was talking crap about her, but then was only when I was with the girl taking her home. So now, not only was she trying to get me and my buddy co-worker to collide, she was stirring drama to see how would it play out with another co-worker. This had me mad, I wasn't going to confront her about it though. So I avoid contact. End of this night.

Next night, avoid contact. Eventually she stutters to come up to me while working, she finally questions me. "You think you can give me a ride home tonight?" Hmm, the ball is in my court now. I try to stall out by saying "Ummm, ahhh..." "You don't have a ride?", she said No - "I then said I don't know I gotta see." I then walked away, she basically followed me and asked again, I said "Gas is expensive nowadays, you know?" She then said that I didn't have a problem taking her home before (yeah bitch well now I do). I didnt reply to that and was making up excuses jokingly saying you know thats a 1600cc twin cam engine, etc. all this BS - my car is a crappy 4-cylinder lol.

End of the night comes again, so I agree to take her home. So I grab a bite and eating on the upper level, where she can't see me. So I text her where I am eating at. No response, oh well I could care less. I finish my meal and head out looking for her. She is outside and saying that she was looking for me and though I left her. I said Naa i wouldn't do that.. I told her that I texted her phone. She said "Oh my phone is deactivated because I don't have money for the phone bill."

So I said alright you ready? She then said she already called her Aunt to come pick her up (awesome for me) So I said Oh okay and began eating some candy I had and sat down. She then said "How come you were so cranky today?" I disagreed and kept eating. She still continued saying yeah you were. Then I denied it again, then she said yes again. (Bitch I'm not your boyfriend, dafuq you care for?) I just said "I don't know, mixed emotions." Then she asked if I was going inside. "Naa" - She then said "Oh okay, well enjoy your candy." (In a calm tone).

Then went home, no longer upset - thought long and hard about the past few days. In my conclusion, I am not going to bother with a girl that has NO money, NO phone, seems to have NO intelligence, and is a fucking LEECH.

Thanks for all who read, and I will keep the thread open incase anything happens that seems worth telling for a little. Also didn't proofread so don't mind the errors.

tl;dr - fuck this girl

 

Damn man, sorry to hear. You're whole situation was such an enjoyable read! Even if nothing worked out, just know that your story has made my night!

 

By the sound of that girl she was in it for the free lifts the free days out.
-1 Never try date a girl that can dump a boyfriend for someone else because that means they can do the same to you.

Edit: Ever tried writing a novel? i think you'd be quite good i was interested with most the posts aha