I may be a teen dad?

Yesterday, my girlfriend and I had sex when we woke up.. It was a spur of the moment shindig so there wasn't a condom involved. She is not taking birth control or anything either.. Anyways I released my sperm in her, and I didn't think anything about it until now. She said she should get her period by the end of this week or early next week. She woke up this morning and complained of nausea, and through out the whole day today she complained of her lower back and hips hurting. She did also mention some pressure in the downstairs region, but she said that wasn't anything big. So my question is.. what are the chances she could be preggo? And is it too soon to tell? But also.. like.. what will people say if she is? What will happen? We've been dating for 18 days..

 

Sex after only 2 weeks?
You go champ
There is im not sure what its called but its something like a late pill,It has a 60-80% chance of working and is supposed to be used in the case you forget condom/morning after pill.
Its kind of like a abortion pill...
If she is pregnant already and she did nothing about it.
Run.

 

She is refusing to take any form of pill

 

Why isn't she taking the day after pill?

 

 
 
 

 

He's asking why, johng. All he previously stated was she was refusing to it, not why was she refusing to it.

Honestly it's too soon to tell, but just be calm and hope you didn't fuck your life up. Learn from this and always carry a condom with you, or make sure your chick is on the pill. Even like that, better safe than sorry.

As I said really doubt it's anything, so just chill out and don't think about it.

 

Sounds like you're now Papa Bill. Congrats.

 

She wouldn't get those symptoms the day after, it takes just over a month to start getting the symptoms of pregnancy, sometimes longer. If she does legitimately have the symptoms then ask her if she has had sex with anyone else beforehand.
Either buy a pregnancy test or wait to see if she has her period. If she does have her period then you're all good.
I recommend you try and convince her to take a pill or something though.

 

That's crazy especially at everyone saying he's a father, she WOULD NOT get those symptoms after one day..
Also @Shoop the symptoms for pregnancy can come as soon as a week but no earlier than that, I would suggest you get her to take the pill or she may end up pregnant but as early as one day after there is no way to tell.

 

If she's refusing to take the pill, then I suppose you can't make her.
Arrange an appointment at the doctor for a proper test, this will tell you if she is pregnant and how far gone she is, since she's complaining of symptoms already then it's probably more than a day.

 

I think the symptoms are from work since she does have to do some lifting which would result in her lower back pain.. however I did pop her molly so I know she hasn't had sex with anyone else.. She doesn't want to take the pill because she hates pills since she had an experience where one got stuck in her throat even though she had water with it and it wouldn't go down.. and basically it was surgically removed, but the acid ate away at her throat and they had to fix it.. Also does the amount of sperm affect it? I fapped beforehand at home before I was at her place... And I don't think I shot a big load, but I did shoot some or at least I got that feeling I shot some

 

No, the amount of sperm won't matter much. If you shot inside her it really doesn't matter how much it was.

 

Dude if that's really the reason then you need to have her take it. One bad experience (granted it was really bad) isn't worth making both of your lives super hard at a very young age.

The effectiveness decreases as time goes on (up to 72 hours? maybe 48) so it might be too late by now

 

And why wont she take the pill?
You must get her to use a pill...
Doubt she will want a abortion by the sounds of it.
She might try to make you the father and maybe she was already pregnant

 

Read the posts in the thread.

She wont take the pill because she had a bad experience with one when she was younger which caused her throat to get all messed up.
She wasn't already pregnant because he took her virginity.

 

I agree with shoop.

Either A: She is bluffing for some reason to see how you will react
or B: She was pregnant before that

 

I would suggest her to make an appointment with an OBGYN as soon as possible. Especially since she is fairly new to sex. They should be able to test for the human growth hormone hCG. But it is a tad soon to know 100% though. Hopefully she is not pregnant and maybe this will be one of those scary life lessons that everyone talks about.

After reading some of the comments above, I tend to agree with shoop.
She could be one of those unfortunate few that regrow their hymen over time which could lead you to think that she was a virgin.

My post and the many others here are going off of what we know. Have a genuine conversation with her and ask her for the truth.

 

UPDATE: After spending the day with her today, she went into bathroom a few times and came out and said she's bleedin from her vag which meant she started her period.. however she said if it stops and doesn't continue for 3-4 days then there's a problem.. I did some research and after conception bleeding from the vag is normal every now and then as it's just lining being replaced..

 

In future, use a condom dude no matter what. I feel like i'm stating the obvious, but If she's refusing to take any kind of contraceptive it's up to you to provide the insurance.

 

She most likely has a UTI and will need to see a doctor to get some antibiotics and while she's there she can speak to someone if she's still unsure rather or not shes pregnant. No big deal, if she's pregnant there's a lot of options out there for young parents such as adoption or foster care maybe even an abortion? I'm steering clear of opinions on abortions though as that is a very vague topic and I don't wanna stomp on anyone elses beliefs.