Should i feel guilty?

Basically I have this guy who lives next door to me, known him all my life but when we were younger we used to get the munchies a lot from blazing and he used to steal food from my house and shit without asking and take things of mine and one of my other best mates said they seen him take tobacco when i was out the room and also say shit about me behind my back and fell out with him because he basically started using my house to come and get stoned in(because his mother doesn't know he smokes and would kick him out if she ever found out)

Also when i was a lot younger in the early days of my rs obsession he used to play as well, he hacked 20m off me back in say 2007 but denied it but i knew it was him a few days later i set up a keystroke recorder on his laptop and took the 20m of his account, the next day 20 lads turn up at my house and one hits me in the head with a pair of knuckle dusters over runescape..

So.. yesterday was the last straw for me he told me we would go to his mates to grab some stuff then go to the cinema but he invites his mate along, we get there and he doesn't offer to chip in for some petrol then he payed for his mate when he said he was going to pay for me I'm there standing in the queue asking him how much tickets are and just completely ignores me and carries on talking to his mate, so i let them go in the cinema and said i was going to the toilet, got in my car and left them there.. also when we went to pick up his mate i said to him its 5:30 we have to go cinema now and just ignores me carries on talking.. i say it again.. and just carries on talking... so i say it a third time and he goes oh you should of told me.. taking the piss. also he only seems to ring when he wants a lift somewhere (i have a car and he doesn't)

So tonight i picked my other best mate up from work and we parked up somewhere to have a smoke(I'm quitting weed for good when my gf gets back on Monday) and i was looking for something and stumbled across a big bag of weed which hes left in my car and not told me so god knows how long ive been driving around with that in my car.. so took some myself and gave the rest to my mate as i don't have much need for it anymore

Theres a lot more things but i cant think of them right now since its 4am lol

So... should i feel guilty about leaving him at the cinema and taking his weed?

 

Fuck that, he's a dipshit from what i hear. I'd also beat his ass up if he ever comes back to you to ask for his shit

 

GAY take his weed, his hoes, and his mother's virginity. hes an asshole he deserves it. he cracks you over the head for what is now \maxed out at 6.50-25.00 a long time ago? lol.

 

Why the hell are you still talking to this guy? He sent a bunch of guys to beat you up with brass knuckles over Runescape? I would beat the shit out of him for that. That should be enough right there for you to not to feel guilty for anything. In fact, I think he deserves a lot more done to him than that. I also would have knocked his ass out after continuing to ignore you and not paying for your ticket after you gave him a ride and picked up his friend. Did he expect you to just wait outside for 2 hours while they go and watch the movie after using you to get a ride and saying he'd pay for you? I wouldn't have given him the weed back either. Drop that asshole and don't talk to him again. Seriously.

 

Thanks for the replies, i did take the weed split it with my other mate.. but its so annoying because i just want nothing to do with the kid but he lives next fucking door.....

im glad ive come to my senses, my girlfriend said before but i guess i was just being stupid and couldn't see it...

 

Tell his parents he smokes and he won't be your neighbor anymore.

 

Its so obvious as well, all his mum would have to do is look in his drawers and find all the smoking paraphernalia and instantly find out he smoked weed.. hmmm

 

Honestly, I think he deserves it. He just sounds like an all around terrible person. Some discipline might do him well. You'll probably even be doing him a favor in the long run. If he already acts the way he does now, then I'd hate to see what he'll grow up into. It's time for him to wake up and realize that he can't get away with treating people like shit.

 

I agree with Dim here, he 100% deserves everything you just did to him + you should tell his mother he's been smoking and give her some proof. Seriously though, getting hit over 20m on Runescape? That's just pathetic, ditch his ass and make better friends. You can even admit to yourself he's clearly only using you.

 

Hell no, you shouldn't feel guilty. He's an idiot and he got what he deserves.
I'd personally just leave it at that and not bother telling his mum, if he then asks for anything when you go to your car etc just simply say no, ignore him and drive off. You can save telling his mum for if he does anything else.

 

No, you shouldn't feel guilty..not at all. He's a horrible person and is using you to take him to places with your car, etc. I have no idea about telling his mom, but if he does another horrible thing, go for it.

 

Best thing for you to do is to delete him out of your life completely.

 

Spoke to him today basically told him to fuck off and i just said look i cleaned my car out and haven't come across any weed blah blah and he goes well you owe me money for that shit.. no fucking way ive been driving around for god knows how long with that shit in my car, if i would of got stopped and searched i could of potentially lost my drivers license.. so anyway if i could think of a master plan that would involve his mum knowing he smokes but doesn't find out i was the cause then i might do it but for now ill just see what happens as time goes..

thanks for all the advice

 

Leave hints or something,maybe hide weed somewhere near his house where his mum would check often

 

Hmm that wouldn't work, i was thinking of leaving an anonymous note in his letterbox but that might be too suspicious

 

it would let me think of some ideas for you >.>

 

This is the saddest story I ever read on the internet. Why would you even go to the cinema with this pig to begin with? Don't feel sorry or even guilty next time you see this no life don't talk to him, don't give him anything and if he tries to bully you be a man and stand up for yourself. I would have slapped him right across the face if he ever touched anything of mine that didn't I give him permission to take but I'm not going to say violence is the answer because it's not but c'mon be a man and stand your ground and don't ever be someones door mat like this.

Don't hit him though. Keep him away from your home and your life and don't ever let this pig bully you around anymore or I'll have to reach out from my screen into yours and shake you. You have more self worth then to be friends with anyone like this.

 

And you still call him as your friend? Wow, if anyone hits me for some stupid virtue gold, I'd call the cops on him. Seriously, no joke. He's a jerk and he deserved it. Don't be friends with such people, and stay away from him.