girl problems

nvm fuck it ive made up my mind

 

I would've liked to see what the problem was? You seem angry, hope you don't make any rash decisions. Stay cool friend.

 

I agree with this ^

 

I could help you

 

Yea man we can help, post the problem!

 

Wrote a god dam book on here, then after a long walk I came back and deleted it. The stress of being 19, with a son and another on the way. And a girlfriend of 4 years gets pretty stressful at times.

 

I can relate to where you're coming from, having a kid at a young age is a lot of responsibility. Your life is basically over, your freedoms are stretched and your money can only go so far. Just know that just by being there you're doing the right thing, there's men twice your age who don't even move a finger to help or be there for their children so be proud of that.

You're still young, you might of had a few kids with this girl but you're definitively not married to her. If this relationship is causing a tear between you and your son or she's not putting her part in to help with the kids, money or with keeping the home clean I'd say move on from her.

Plenty of time to find a suitable mate that's level headed with the same goals and love that you need and want to share. Although if you want to stay with her, find some help, seek a couples therapist or family assistance I'm sure you must have some Aunties or Uncles who have been through hell and back and would have great advice.

 

Glad you've sorted this