So what should I do?

Posting this anonymous, but people should be able to figure out who I am if you truly care..

Anyways..

Last year about this time, a girl messaged me.. we talked, and she said "hey do you remember me?" of course I didn't, and then I realized I had gone to school with her. She had a sister who was best friends with my sister (as far as I know they still are). Anyways, we start talking and exchange numbers..

Fast forward to September/November-ish... We talk ALOT like everyday at least, and we both like each other, but nothing is official yet. At the end of each conversation, I would put a heart or something and she would put the same..


Eventually it got to the point where her friend even messaged me on facebook saying why haven't you asked her out yet; she loves you ALOT.

So I did, We started dating, and I didn't really feel it. I mean I was like ehh you're not really my type now... So I kinda let her go easy saying because she lived 20 minutes, and I had school I couldn't go to her house everyday after school.

Well after Christmas, I realized.. "hey i love her".. So we got back together after talking.. however her parents HATED me.. (we are both 17).. her sister hated me too.. Anyways her parents are the really strict type.. like she won't even get her license until she can pay for it which means she'll be out of college at least.. She won't get a car.. anyways..

So we dated a little, and then one day she was having a movie night with her family, and she invited me.. I told her to ask her parents first because knowing how weird they are, they might say no.. Well I was right.. out of the blue her father said I could not physically see her anymore but he couldn't stop her from texting/calling me. Eventually, we both agreed we can't do a relationship like this so we broke up.

Now I was really mad because we both wanted to see each other, but her fucking parents wouldn't let us date for some odd reason that I wasn't honest (because I got her home a little later than I said I would drop her off by)..

So I sent her dad a really long text explaining how he is wrong and basically calling him a douchebag and not respecting his daughter..

Well he sent back how I was immature blah blah blah..

So I shot him another text saying the same stuff as I had said earlier but adding the fact that if he cared about her, he would respect her wishes..

Got the same response..

So by now, I just deleted her off facebook didn't talk to her at all as I was devestated..

Then she added me back about a week later, and we started talking and she wanted to be 'best friends'. I thought hey why not whatever.. well she started texting me randomly about guys she liked and stuff, and I got so fed up with her talking about other guys, I blocked her on facebook..

So we still were texting, and she sent me a text saying the guy she really liked was about to go back into a relationship what should she do blah blah blah.. and I said just tell him how you really feel.. And she did..

Lo and behold he shot back a response the next day saying hey I feel the same way about you, we can give it a shot, etc etc etc and in the mean time I feel like shit because I care alot about her to the point where idk whether or not I should cut off all contact by not responding to her texts/snapchats..

She would text me and be like I wish my parents liked you etc and then a few minutes later say "OMG HE TEXTED ME".. like really..

So I guess what I'm asking here is should I continue to text her.. she doesn't really have many friends, and it'll hurt her if I downright tell her that I don't want to text her anymore because she's hurting me, but at the same time I do want to text her because I still have feelings..

So wat do guize

 

I'd just talk to her, tell her that some things have hurt you although, she could have been doing it to get a reaction from you to see if you're still interested.

Talk to her and just see what happens, you'll be 18 soon and it wont be at her parents consent so things may get easier. It all depends whether you'd want to try again or not.

 

yeah, i don't blame her dad. no offence dude, but calling her dad a douchebag just because he doesn't want his daughter to date some random ass guy was a really stupid idea. if he thinks you're immature, calling him names isn't going to help your case.

i can't see parents just blatantly not liking you unless you either look like a dirtbag or act like a douche to them. in the future probably definitely try to be as respectful as you possible can and always look sharp when meeting them, and then you won't ever have this issue again

she's probably trying to make you jealous, or is a slut. id just move on, especially since she's not even allowed to physically be with you, there's literally no point.

to let her off easily just tell her that since you can't even see her irl, it's never going to work and we should just move on w/e w/e