female st00f

alright i know this girl and she's always telling me how attractive i am and she's always touching me and hugging me and all. And she's telling me she's dating someone but if she wasn't dating him she would date me. but she's telling me that she has an amazing boyfriend and she loves him very much so i dont understand wtf is going on here lol

 

You should probably tell her that acting so friendly with you could get her in trouble. Maybe she's bored of her boyfriend? I wouldn't lead her on until she's made it clear whether she wants to be with you or him.

 

Yea i don't want to get in between their shit, she's acting almost as if she wants to date us both. I've never seen the guy tho

 

I would just ask her straight, "Do you like me or him?" I'm sure she'll understand potentially playing your heart strings isn't a good idea and she needs to decide between you both

 

She told me she loves him, but I don't understand what the hell she's trying to do ahahha. I'm guessing she just finds me highly attractive and irresistible

 

She probably just wants sex from you, dont take anything she says personal. Ive had this done to me many times and it usually leads to sex a bad after taste but then I could be wrong. Idk just ask her or maybe her boyfriend isent so amazing and she just wants you to put a bit of effort into her..... its what girls do I call it teenage games.

 

Whatever man, I'm just gonna stay out of her relationship and just ignore it. She's a good friend and all

 

Its not that easy as it sounds dude, you gotta put yourself in his shoes. I experienced a similar situation with a girl last year, we shared a class in college and I remember she kept putting her shoes on mines just to play and flirted on me, the problem was that she was dating someone. How did this continue? Well we liked hanging out with each other and we went to play pool once, just as normal friends, while we were playing, she hugged me and I just kissed her, she was kinda surprised at first but then she instantly kissed me back.

My suggestion here is to go with the flow, keep like this and you both will have THAT moment in which either you or her will express their real feelings to each other

I would also tell you to dont go direct to the point with her like some dudes above said, otherwise you would be risking the friendship.

 

I don't know It's kind of weird. She's always asking me me what I would do if she just kissed me, or if I would ever has sex with her and shit like that. I don't know if she's trying to get in my pants or just trying to get me to compliment her or something.

 

Dude if she told you those things about kissing & having sex, then the thing is quite clear here. She just wants you lol, but if you dont do anything for a long time then she will get bored of you and pass to another guy, trust me when I say that as it happened to me and I kinda regret it >.>

 

What do you mean regret it? Not doing anything or what? Because I really can't do anything because she's with another guy right now. All she's doing is teasing my dick.

 

If shes saying stuff like that then go for it. Say that you like her too, or try to wait until she is over that guy and then go for it ^_^

 

This is what it is man. She really likes you and when she tells you that she loves her boyfrend etc. she doesn't really mean it. She's just hinting u to go do somehting about the fact that she has a boyfriend. You need to tell her that you like her too (if you're interested) and say that she should really be with you. Trust me with this man, I am sure it will work in your favour and even if it doesn't it'll feel nice that you got this burden off you.

 

Well, I was in the same situation as you, and "regret it" because I didnt do anything beside the time we kissed, I just waited to see if she would break with her boyfriend which she eventually didnt, she never told her bf we kissed tho, plus she even liked facebook status that were like "If he doesnt do anything, I will just pass to another one" and things like that, even tho I just waited her and then we slowly stopped talking to each other. Honestly, just go with the flow, as said before, but talk to her or try to flirt with her too.

I regret not doing anything when I had the chance, I am sure if I kept talking and hanging with her she would broke up with his guy or atleast be with both, as she didnt even waste telling his boyfriend when we kissed, she never told him we used to hang out either and probably that girl doesnt tell anything to his boyfriend too.

 

Sounds like she is trying to gauge your reaction. She is definitely interested in you.

 

She's testing you and is attracted to you. She wants to know something about you before she moves any further. Women are plagued terribly with indecisiveness (related to love) and the inability to act on their initial feelings. That's why for the most part the guy makes the first move.

I couldn't tell you her motive for sure, but have you seen this "boyfriend" she is seeing? Can you confirm that he is in fact real and not a purported character to test your morals?

So I suppose I see 2 real options:
1) She is suiting you up and testing your morals because for some reason you didn't recognize she was into you and it forced her hand. So she's trying to analyze you to death to make sure every single little detail is perfect. Essentially she might be trying to check if you would cheat on her.

2) She just wants to do something bad (sleep with you), either out of character or because her boyfriend is ignoring her and she wants his attention.

 

That my friend is your usual ratchets in high school (if your in high school). Stay away from her and don't attach any feelings, because ratchets are the biggest headache.

 

Don't bother with her, once she moves onto you, she will be saying the same thing to the next man about you.

 

yolo, flirt back, she in the wrong not you.

 

She is a female player.