My bestfriend

So two or so days ago I was talking with my bestfriend and she mispelled pepperoni.. I corrected her and she replied 'k' and I replied 'k' back and those are pet peeves of hers (correcting and 'k'). Well she full on raged at me.. like I said 'I'm going to talk to you when you're in a better mood' and she was like bye and so a while later I said 'you feeling okay and won't 'k' me?' She tweeted saying 'quit treating me like i'm 5' and then I said quit subtweeting about me. She then proceeded to tweet that I was being creepy/obsessive/stalker and basically she texted me saying the same stuff and that if I didn't like it then block her.. well a couple seconds later that tweet was deleted and she blocked me on facebook/twitter/instagram and she completely didn't wanna talk to me. I texted her sorry a few times giving big paragraphs each time. Yesterday morning she texted me saying how annoying I could be sometimes and I said I'm sorry. I then texted her a very serious poem that was emotional and it basically said don't let this friendship fall apart and it's either let me back in your life or i'm out and she never replied, but she replied when I said what's up and we've been having small conversations but it's not the same.. there's just that certain uncertainty when I text her, and I don't wanna be in a conversation and just put it out there.. like I think she wants to be friends again but she won't text me after a while then text me on and off.. She's slowly getting back into the phase of texting me, but no where near as much as we used to do. Anyways, I wanna know what should I do? I'm pursuing getting her back, and I text her things to start conversations which we make small talk and slowly getting back to being 'friends', but what should I do? I'm still blocked on fb/twitter/instagram and I don't wanna ask if she'll unblock me..

I'd like everyone's opinion on this as

Also I don't see her in person anymore since she moved, and we were really bestfriends like she told me stuff she didn't tell anyone else, and I probably have 500+ pictures of selfies she sent me

 

*Sigh* I've had similar situations with people. The only thing I can tell ya is, friends come and go. One moment they are the best person in your life and you guys can't get enough of each other and the next they don't even want to see you no matter how many times you call.

Sometimes you just have to let them go and move on.

People don't value friendship as they used to. Like you give and give but rarely recieve anything in return.

So yea, I'd say move on, no matter how hard it is.
You may think you're lonley but soon another person will come into your life thats better. Just be prepared when the same thing happens again.

 

Seem's a bit of a overreaction IMO, but if she really is someone special don't give up trying to make things right. If it's meant to be it will all work itself out

 

I didn't know "bestfriends" get mad when you correct their spelling. No offense, but I think it's more than just the correction that got her mad. Maybe you said something else to tick her off, but if it just so happens to be that the correction of the word "pepperoni" got her mad, then I think you should reassess the fact that she's your "bestfriend." I hope this helps, and I hope everything works out in the end.

 

In all honesty, I think she had a right to get angry if this is something you do often. You were being a smartass when she was already upset and that is what set her off. Why would you say 'you feeling okay and won't 'k' me?' when you know that is exactly what pisses her off? You were seriously asking for it by purposely trying to agitate her. She did overreact some and the whole twittering thing and blocking you was unnecessary, but that doesn't matter. You clearly started it, so you need to fix it.

You shouldn't let something like this ruin your friendship. If you continue doing what you're doing, then you will at some point. You need to tell her that you're sincerely going to try not to annoy her anymore. I'm sure she's mentioned what you do that she doesn't like, so just contain yourself and don't do it. If you do this and she sees a noticeable change, then she'll quickly get over this and things will go back to normal.

 

When someone calls you "creepy/obsessive/stalker" do not send them a poem. Just my personal opinion :embar:

 

Stop texting/talking/trying to get in contact with her. Girls get insanely moody about pointless shit sometimes (sorry all girls reading, it's true). Just give her some space, she'll calm down eventually. If she's your best friend she's not going to let that slip over you correcting the word pepperoni O_O

 

I mean she also blew up I guess because I had said she had changed and she had said 'You don't know me that well to say I've changed' And stuff like that.. So I mean we talk now like this morning we texted back and forth but it's just still like she's still blocking me even though we're slowly talking again but i think she'll warm up to me again