bit confused

thnx in advance

 

Well seeing as your the man you should ask her what she's feeling. You fingering her at the early days of meeting tells me this aint really serious. If it were I'm sure all the sexual side of things would unleash shortly after you're in a relationship. I would be upfront and ask her if she has any feelings towards you and if she does, thats great you can build that relationship from there and forward.

 

yeah I see what you mean, I forgot to mention this last night that when we did stuff we were both high and drunk
the other night we werent that bad and just watched a movie and cuddled the whole night

 

Lol blame it on the drugs and alchoal^_^ my advice would be to take it slow and allow whatever happens to progress naturally, don't rush it.

 

You should ask her if she has any feelings for you. If she does, then you can direct your own future by having a better relationship with her, even if it only means you only finger her and not have any hot sex.

 

cheers boys

 

If you want to continue with this girl, try to stay clean when you're together(no weed/alc), you dont want a relationship based/built on drugged feelings .

 

I agree. There's always the initial thrill of a relationship that dies down after a month or two. I'd say of course she thinks you're attractive, or you wouldn't have hooked up in the first place. Drugs and alcohol have their time and place, but it shouldn't be an every time thing.

 

I came across an almost exact same situation when I was in high school.
Except it was in school so this may change things.

But yeah me and this girl met at a school BBQ, worked my way around to Oral Sex on the first day. We ended up dating for 3 months.
Initially I believe it was just curiosity and experimenting, but then it lead to further relations.

Question is, what do you want?

 

Ask her how she feels. Do you like her/see her as a potential girlfriend?

I'd slow down with the sex side of things and get to know her outwith your high state. Seeing as she's still a virgin, I wouldn't take that away until you were bott serious and in a relationship, girls deeply regret that sort of thing when they're older.

Instead of goong to hers or yours to get high, ask her out for something to eat or a movie or something. See how things go from there and then decide what you wanna do.

 

legit good advice, thnx again guys