Why sex-changing could be a problem!

But in all seriousness, if you want to cut off your wiener, I'm all for it - I think that it should definitely be required to warn/inform any potential relationships. What do you guys think?

(Heard about a couple days back on the radio, it just felt like something to share with you guys)

http://dailycaller.com/2012/11/28/belgian-man-shocked-to-learn-wife-of-19-years-is-a-man/

Now personally speaking, this guy left his original wife for the nanny so even though it seems like the perfect get-back, unfortunately I have to push that aside. Two wrongs never make a right, and not telling about an operation like that is on the same level as infidelity. And I promise you this guy is not the first who has, will be, or is currently being lied to about this very thing.

 

Definitely some karmic retribution lol. But you're right, it's pretty sick not to tell your partner that you're a tranny. Nothing wrong with being one I guess, as long as you're honest about it

 

Either
a) He had a small penis
or
b) The tranny had a large penis
They make the vagina out of your penis or something like that. Basically, the bigger the penis, the deeper the vaginal canal.

Honestly, I wouldn't mind if they were a tranny. As long as the sex was good and they didn't have a deep voice, it's a-okay with me. I've seen some pretty hot trannies. I'm pretty open-minded, though.

 

I'm bisexual and I don't think after 19 years of marriage I'd be disappointed if my significant other had a sex change previously. I fell in love with them and they were unhappy with who they were.

 

It would definitely feel weird but perhaps he is over-reacting, as yankiee said, he should be in love with that person after 19 years. Maybe he is just a closet bi-sexual and didn't know about it, which drew him to this person?

 

If he really loved her he wouldn't care its not like they just met and are on jerry springer. Also Karma is a biaaatch.

 

Strip away the emotional and moral obligations and take it to the contract of marriage - it is fraud essentially. Like the man who just won the case where he sued his wife for having an ugly baby. She had plastic surgery before they were married and apparently she was really ugly. The baby came out ugly and apparently he was surprised and asked why the kid was so ugly. He didn't know his wife had plastic surgery before marrying her.

 

Not bashing you, but don't you think you being "Bi-sexual" plays a role in that...? Imagine if the person wasn't bi-sexual/gay, living a complete lie with someone who has been drastically altered might cause someone to feel a little uneasy, eh?

Saying he "SHOULD" be in love with them after 19 years of marriage despite a lie (And infidelity) like this is a little stretched... What drew his attraction to the person was his/her false identity, he was attracted to the woman image when in reality she is a man. Isn't that the definition of deception?

Love him/her despite the deception?

 

HAHAH can you link me to this story? Thats fucking outrageous, i dont think thats right whatsoever however your point being made about the situation OP presented is valid. Its founding a relationship on a lie and is flat out fraud. I cant fathom what i would do in this situation.

 

Just to add on to this, I have a strong feeling that those who said/say they would be comfortable or fine with it might think a little differently if it actually happened to them.

 

http://www.ibtimes.com/chinese-man-sues-his-wife-over-ugly-baby-jian-feng-wins-case-120000-858151

 

I didn't say I was fine with it but after 19 years of marriage you'd have to think he'd be relatively conflicted. You and Nero have made some pretty good points though, it is essentially fraud. If it were me I'd be pretty disgusted with having sexual relations with someone who used to be a man but stuck in indecision as I would hopefully, after 19 years of marriage, love them.

 

He actually took it pretty well, I've heard of cases where people have been killed over having sex without telling the other person they were a tranny. It should be announced before sex though especially before marriage. I'm sure he will get an annulment and most likely get away without having to pay any settlements due to the case being a fraudulent marriage at the time.

 

Fucking china, i was hoping/thinking the US or UK. That man is an asshole calling his own child horrifying and being a total prick about the situation, i cant believe any judge found that in his favor -_-.

Like i said in my earlier post, i cannot fathom what i would do. Honestly i would probably end up in prison. Being lied to hits me pretty hard when it comes from someone i care about, its about the worst thing that someone can do to me after establishing a connection to where i honestly trust them. That combined with the intensity of said lie would probably lead me strait to violence. Let alone the psychological trauma that would induce, basically falling in love with what turned out to be a man having sex with what turned out to be a man (pre op or post op snipping the genitals off doesnt change someones gender it just mutilates them). Trying to imagine this situation first person is just hard to even wrap my head around. Even if it was a blissful relationship for the years you were married, that would make the lie that much more devastating.

 

Praise God and his magical underpants!

But seriously, I think it is kind of weird that you didn't realize that s/he wasn't a man. Didn't the deep voice and manly body hair give him a clue?

 

hormones are a miraculous thing, someone i knew from highschool decided to go trap and be a "girl" i swear his whole bone structure changed ...along with his voice. its horrifying, he passes as a girl. Nero btw singer of against me decided to become a girl, hes still married to his wife wtf ? His hormones havent taken yet, hes still manly looking lol and really funny about talking about it, i cant figure it out. I didnt know and saw them live 2 weeks ago and was very thrown off, apparently hes "lesbian" trapped in a mans body or something im scared about what it will do to his voice

 

I would be pissed and disgusted. She/he lied to him for so many years about something substantial.

 

If this was the spam forum, I would be saying something along the lines of "That's hot, I'd still do him". But reality of it is, I would have a lot to think about, and personally would be in shock after that many years. But doesn't matter, still had sex.

-LeetNeo.

 

That surgeon had some amazing skills if he did not notice anything.

 

That's horrible. The woman is stupid for not telling him....betrayal :\