just a girl question out of curiosity

I don't want to end up making a thread on something like this every time a girl comes and goes but one can be oblivious to something while it's obvious to others. I know for sure this is true when it comes to girls. I'll be oblivious to signs but if the very same thing happened to my friend I wouldn't hesitate to tell him to jump on the opportunity.

Anyway I know this girl from my chem class from last semester and we see and talk a bunch whenever we see each other. She works at this kiosk at the mall and I went to the mall and saw her and started talking. Then we went to this ice cream place in the mall because she wanted to get something to snack on for a small break. I made a bunch of jokes, easily got her laughing and such, it was cool. We got to the ice cream place and she offered to buy it for me but I said nah its cool and I ended up paying for hers lol.

We go back to her job and talk a bunch there and she asks me about this girl I was with (my ex) because she saw me walking with her a few months ago when we were in the mall together. Told her we weren't together and she was like "aww im sorry" but I was like "nah who cares lol".

Ended up asking her what she was doing this weekend and she said she was studying for some quiz and was busy so a little after that I decided to leave (she was working after all lol) and said "I know you said you're busy this weekend but we should definitely hang out some time" and she said she'll let me know.

Bad/good? I thought the fact that she asked about that girl I was with a while ago was trying to see if I'm currently single or not but who knows anyway.

I'm sure I didn't give enough hints but you guys think she likes me?

 

A bit puzzling to me too, but that's women!

She remembers you walking with your girlfriend in the mall from months ago, and asks about it? If it was days, or 1-2 weeks, sure. But if it's been that long, she must be interested. Especially when she brings it out of the blue. How many times would you say you've met and talked to each other, until today where she asked about it?

The thing I don't understand is she doesn't seem that interested in the last paragraphs, maybe she's playing hard to get? Maybe she's shy or not sure yet.

I'd say yes, but maybe she's also one of those people that just really focuses on what they need to do. Like the quiz, she doesn't want any distractions.

I wouldn't worry about it till a few days later, see if she gives you anymore signs. You did after all already make your move, see if she gives you any hints then. If the next 2 times you hang out or see her, and no hints are given, I'd suggest you ask her if she wants to hang out or something. If she refuses and/or comes up with an excuse, odds are she's not interested, but there would still be that chance that her excuse are unavoidable.

 

I think a yes, it must be good.

She was asking about you're ex that sound's more then friendly to me.. maybe she's taking thing's slow? wants to get know you better in that way etc?

 

defo, you're on it son.

 

When she said she'll let you know, did she seem like she was trying to avoid it? If not, then you got it in the bag dude.

 

You shouldn't have paid for her ice cream

 

And why not?
It's an indicator that he considers her a friend or even likes her.

OP:
Honestly, don't go too far into if she likes you or not.
Wait for her to reply if she wants to hang out on the weekend. If she does, then you're all cool. If not, she already told you she's busy, that was before you even asked her if she wanted to hang out, so it's not like she's just making up excuses.

 

Probably should have let her pay for her yours as well.

If you have her number, just call her one day and say to hang out some time, as opposed to waiting for her to do it.

You seem to be going alright, just be weary of being friend-zoned. Next time you talk to her, you should also pay attention to her laughs, if a girl likes you, you always turn into a comedian for her, regardless of whether you're actually funny or not.

 

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