Why can't I end it with this girl? :/

So, I've known this girl for 2 years now and in them 2 years we've had our arguments I admit.
We only 'made it official' on February 4th this year and it's all been good up untill the last few weeks.
We've been arguing so much, we're on and off like a switch. She said "it's over" 3 times in one week which kinda pissed me off but she says "she doesn't mean it".
So today, I finally snapped because apparantly I ditched her for a friend, even though I was seeing her aswell, she told me I was a "shit boyfriend" and I never listen or do anything about what she says, so I said it was over.
She still met up with me and my friend but it was kinda awkward until my friend left and it was me and her. She kept trying to hug me, appologizing, but I didn't want to give in :/

Note: Last week, she argued with me because I wouldn't let her go out with 3 boys who all had a crush on her, dunno how you guys would feel, but it seriously pissed me off.
Also, I read her messages on her phone, and one boy who is really jealous of me and her is a total douche, but she told him she had a slight crush on him and if it ended between me and her and she asked him out, what would he say. Even more aggrovating!

Anyway, we're all okay now, but I just don't know why I can't seriously end it!

 

If you don't mind me asking, how old are you and her?

Anyways, relationships are hard man, they have there ups and there downs, but if you can pull through it you two will be a stronger couple. You said everything was going great up until a few weeks ago, so that was good, that could be the "honeymoon phase" though, were everything seems perfect.

You should not be in a relationship with someone who belittles you though, it should have mutual respect.

Does she know you read those messages on her phone? Did she let you?
If not, that sort of says you don't trust her, and that is a very important thing in a relationship. If she let you read it, she seems like someone who wants a lot of attention, and you aren't giving her enough. Honestly there is nothing you can do about that, some girls are just like that, and as bad as it is to say, they just aren't worth your time and effort.

 

I personally couldn't handle the situation you're in, i see couples all the time they are breaking up every week and getting back together a few hours later, constantly arguing about everything, its not how a relationship works.

Conflict is healthy in a relationship, you're never a perfect match, but if it gets to this point which you've clearly stated, you know its crossed the line and perhaps its for the best to break up if you can't fix it.

Remember its a 2 way system, its not all down to you to fix it, she needs to put in the same amount of effort to help sort things and stop your arguing, but if i was in your situation i would of just said I'm sorry but i can't handle it anymore, think we should break up...

 

If she's already shopping around she's not worth your trouble. Just tell her that she went too far and it has to end. Obelisk already hit the other nail on the head.

 

Looks like my story, i did accept her back, and we went good again for 2 weeks, than we broke up for good ( & with a fight).

Trust me on this1, let her go.. do not accept to return together or w/e..

In the end it still will be your choice, but if i see how i have been this last month,.. i wish i never accepted her back for those 2 weeks...

Many people probably say like: oh, so what, there is more fish in the sea, and you'd be like: dude.. shes not just a fish, all good & well, i was thinking the same. But in the end, there is 1 lesson i learned from this, no joke.

Try listen to family also (mom in special)
From the 1st day my mom knew me & the girl were a couple, she warned me.
Ofcourse i never did believe her,.. untill now.

Family is there to talk, they would do everything to help you.

Hope you will make the right choice

 

Find someone better but if u like her do what u gotta do...

 

Dude, I know exactly what you're going through. My big brother in my fraternity is in a similar situation. He's just with that same girl because he loves her, but he can basically get any girl he wants. I don't know why he status with her, so I can't really help you. Just try and make it work, and find out what the issue is and why you his keep on fighting.