Need Some Random Advice :/

Hey Sytherssss,
I just need some random advice

Firstly Let Me Say:​

I work at a retail store, most of the people there are kinda dicks, and kind of douchey toward me
as I am the youngest, and probably the smartest person there.

Secondly: ​

We just hired a BUNCH of new ppl and one of the girls that was hired
(4 girls hired 5 boys hired [if it matters]), is 16 and
she is in highschool with me (same grade,
known each other since 6th grade).

Third:​

One may consider me a "douche bag" because of my intelligence I have a pretty bad antisocial personality disorder.

Four:​

So I was texting the girl I knew since 6th grade today,
we chatted for probably 6 hours via text message, just talking
about life and stuff. But I have a girlfriend from over 2 years back
and we are still happily going out. Not anymore </3. This new girl may like
(she says she doesn't know him well enough to decide yet)
this other newer guy (6 months on the job) and the newer
guy obviously likes the new girl. But now this girl wants me
to go smoke weed with her some day.

Fifth:
I used to have really bad marijuana problems in middle school.
I was even arrested for possession during my 8th grade year.
My parents were really hard on me and I promised never to do
it again. I haven't smoked ever since or taken any kind of illegal drug.
I have a lot of stress problems from VERY prestigious AP classes,
SATs, SAT IIs, ACTs, National Honor Society,College tours etc.
So I kind of feel like I need this smoking "secession" with her.

The Advice:
Do you think my girlfriend will be mad?
The guy that likes her is my friend so do you think he'll be mad?
Is it worth the risk for me?
How is an effective way to hide all the scents etc.
SIDE NOTE: Asking my Girlfriend if she'd be mad IS NOT and option.​

 

It would not be worth it to go smoke with that girl. I would stick with your girlfriend remember you 2 have been dating for OVER 2 YEARS.

 

What's the point in smoking with this girl if you already have a girlfriend who you like? It's not like you need more friends, like you said, you have antisocial personality disorder.

 

its not like I would date this girl just go smoke with her :/ and chill

Well I do need friends, I don't have any, just my girlfriend and 1 other person.

 

scratch that, got into a huge random fight with my gf. single now </3

 

So you're now going out with the other girl?

Remember if you need somebody to vent yourself or just chat hit me up with a pm.

 

sure ill hit you up, but no i am now single

 

bump?

 

Well here are some answers, if the guy hasn't specifically told you he was going to ask her out she is fair game. If you are talking about just getting high with her and not asking her out then there should be no reason the dude should get upset that you smoked a blunt with her.

As far as it being worth the risk, that's sorta up for you to decide, if you can do a one and done sort of thing then I think it is.

Lastly to deal with the scent just smoke outside, and as long as you go for a decent walk after like 15/20 minutes you shouldn't smell like it at all except for if someone smells your fingers, to deal with that just wash your hands. If you are unsure about it just bring some axe along with you.

 

It always ends up with the option of you deciding but here's my help.

1: Just let it roll of your shoulders, you wont be there for long with going to college/university e.t.c. and there will more than likely be a lot of the staff there still working there once you've graduated from college/university.

3: With your antisocial personality disorder im sure you can get help with, and tbf if you let people know that you have it, and they still cant take you for who you are then screw them.

4 & 5: I honestly say its not worth it. Don't smoke the weed as it will effect you in the long run, and it could effect your chances of getting into college/university especially if you end up being caught with it by the police/school. Yes by all means hang out with the lass, but just dont smoke weed with her.

 

If it's just a normal catch up whilst 'smoking weed', then there's nothing to worry about
Unless you too have an interest for her, then depending on how much you value your friendship with the other guy, will you be able to make the decision

 

So are you a rising senior? Also, why are you taking both SATs and ACTs? Unless you have problems with the SATs, I wouldn't recommend taking/studying for the ACTs.


Also if you're a rising senior, you're probably 17-18. Are you afraid of getting in trouble with your parents? If you have trouble with Marijuana/ a marijuana dependency, I wouldn't recommend blazing. Has the guy told you that he intends to make a move/ask her out? Even if he has confided in you, you're still allowed to smoke with her.

Yeah as Annex said, just smoke outside. Carry some breathmints/gum.


Are you trinna hook up with this girl? What happened to your girlfriend?

 

thanks for the input guys. let me make it clear, im not trying to hook up with this girl or ask her out or anything, she's merely a friend. as for the weed thing... ehhh im not still too sure. I mean, I WANT TO, but i know that I shouldn't.

as for my gf, she heard a rumor about me being at all these partys and such (which I wasn't) and wouldnt listen to me and just butted me out of her life.