Not sure when to ask this girl out.

SURPRISE, A GIRL THREAD!


anyways down to the point. I have class with this girl who i have grown to like.In the beginning of the year we really didn't know each other but as time went on we have talked in class and gotten more friendly, I realized i liked her, and have been trying to get to that point where i am not in the friend zone, but i am not just a kid in class, this girl is single, which surprises me because she is pretty and their are guys who obviously like her ( and are much more athletic / better looking than me). She has a real bubbly personality so its kinda hard to tell if she is flirting or not sometimes. I think she likes me because she laughs at a lot of the things i say even though they are not that funny, and she talks to me a good bit in class, She also will do something like move her work to my desk to work on it. I have decided that i am going to ask her out but i am not sure when.The only time i talk with her is during the class we have together, and we have no privacy.I have her number but i have never texted her besides things relating school work ( getting answer) their is 1 week of school left with this girl and i am not sure what to do. i DO NOT want to wait till next year because i feel like that could make her lose interests and i would have to start over, I would like to ask her in person but like i said we are never really alone.I could text her but i am not sure if thats the best way to go, not to mention if she says no that last week will be awkward, but that's not my biggest concern.

should i wait towards the end of this last week and ask her in person/text once the year is over, that way no awkwardness if say no and more time to be friendly? or should i just strike now? what would be your advice in this situation. I would rather ask and her say no then miss the opportunity to get to know her, carpe deim and all that.

 

Girls usually like it when a guy takes action, I've done the chicken way out myself a few times and I regretted it after. They were like you've had your chance.
And don't text, just ask her in person. (A movie I recently saw had some great advice:
"All it takes is 20 seconds of extreme courage")

Just ask her out, you'll do great


edit: and o yeah:
surprise a girl thread?
or
surprise, a girl thread!?

 

lol "surprise, a girl thread"

 

dude man up
you dont wanna be that guy in the future that says
man i should of
man i could of
man i would of
whats the worest that can happen she says no
thats when you start up on the next one

 

Just be blunt about it, ask her out. Don't text her... That's the chickens way of doing it.
If she says no then you can always say "ok np, still friends though, right? (give a smile)" something like that

But she will likely say yes anyway.

 

You are young, but you are picking up on some obvious signals. If she is laughing at your shitty jokes and is going out of her way to do stuff(school work) with you two things are occurring.

Either she is using you to pass the class because she is helpless and knows that you will do it for her because you like her (friend zoned) or its because she likes you.

Anyways you have seemed to decide that you want to ask her out, so you must think she's into you. If you can't seem to find a private place to ask her out, then bring her to one. Do something like text her to meet you in the hall when you are sitting beside her and wink at her when she looks at her phone.

Waiting for the perfect opportunity is useless so just make yourself an opportunity. She will respect you more for making an opportunity rather than waiting for one as I have found.

 

ask her out, simplez.

 

Somewere alone with her could work and if she denies you atleast no one heard and + u can kiss for first time


Sai,

 

whoa! Been there, Done that(i regret it)...
your case is 90% similiar to mine ! I was in 9th grade back then, same things happened, she did things that made me wonder if she likes me, i did some too and confused her a bit(purposely, so she thinks about it, about "us") as the year continued, and came to an end, (we still had 3 years of being in the same school left, but would be in seperate classes after 1 more year, she was going to take humanities as her stream, i was gonna take up science.) So i thought to myself, i better do this real soon, so we'll have a great year ahead, and if i didnt ask her soon enough, there was a risk of both of us changing completely after a year, as we were to be in different classes, with different people etc..So i decided, next day i see her, ill go all in, hands down.
The very next day,
Shes not present- .-.... a major major problem here..prepared myself mentally so much, gathered all the guts, and shes not there...this means i ll have to wait 1 more day..

So i do.
Next day i go for it,i talk to her, tell her how i feel etc... she says she would certainly think about it, and that she does kinda like me too. unfortunately, she said nothing. at all. we were still friends ofcourse, but she acted as if she forgot about "us" completely!..
I hence concluded that, i should have given "us" more time, yes, 1 whole year is alot, but no, in this case it wasnt. Till day, (last year of school)(nearly 3 years later) i regret being so fast and bold, and that, had i gotten to know her more, gone out with some other friends too, etc... it would have been completely different...

Sorry i made you read this but,
long story short, if you have more time together, as in, even if you're not gonna be in teh same class or something, but still be around each other for more time,(in years) then id say, hold it, take it slow.