Rantage.

OMG .

My 'fiance' is such a freaking idiot.

okay, we've been together like sixteen months, and I guess you could say I cheated on him while he was in jail, I got drunk kissed another guy, then punched him.

I told him once he got out, this was about six months into our relationship, ka, so I told him- ever since then I've apperantly been cheating on him.

WTF? So now, I'm on webcam non stop apperantly, flashing guys lmao.

How dumb can guys be honestly?

Although, he can cheat on me, talk sexually to chicks, all the time, but I get freaked on talking to one single guy I've known for years?

How does that make sense, tell me PLEASEEE.

We're same age, both 21 ; I'm actually two months older.
I'm his first "long" relationship, all his other ones were like a week or two, and he cheated on them.

Bahahahah, discuss - QUESTION IS:
When is it a good time, to leave your "love"?

 

I made the mistake of talking about other attractive girls to my last girlfriend. It's a good thing i'm so damn good at getting out of female problems, otherwise it wouldn't have ended well.

 

psh, men.

 

A lot of guys are insecure and afraid of losing something close to them. That could either be the issue or just throwing it out there could be messing around with other people and using you as an excuse for that one time when you kissed that other dude

 

If you're his first long term relationship at 21 years old then odds are he's either A) a loser B) a player

If A;
He's an insecure piece of shit, dump him
If B;
He's not someone you should have involved yourself with in the first place, dump him

While I understand that you probably feel like you're not doing anything wrong (and that may very well be the case), in my experience women often seek attention from men without even realizing they're doing it, and it's damn annoying. I'm in a 5 year long relationship right now and seeing as we're both still young, I let my girlfriend have a lot more freedom than most guys would in how she socializes, but this isn't something most guys can do. Guys are generally possessive, it's just the way we are.

 

It sounds like he's really insecure.

There nothing you can do about it, honestly.

That's just the way he is. I mean, you kissed one dude while you were drunk. Everybody does stupid shit when they're drunk.

He needs to get over it if that's case.

 

If you can't trust each other, there isn't much point in carrying on, as it's just going to create heartache and pain for both of you.

 

Lmao, just leave him! The poor guy.. He sounds like an asshole but I actually feel bad for him haha. Cheating is not good news.

 

See, I didn't really consider it cheating, yeah I kissed him for like not even two seconds, and I hit him afterwards, I was also drunk which I know isn't an excuse, shit happens.

But, haha since I wrote this and I was ranting; I left him, I found someone way better, I been hanging with...taking things slow, lol.

Atleast now I don't have to deal with physicial and emotional abuse.

 

Well I am glad to hear that. That relationship sounded quite abusive

 

aren't you supposed to be in the kitchen??
you should never leave

 

So, you kissed the guy, then punched him? Was it his fault that you kissed it and realized it was a mistake?

16 months, you guys haven't been together long, also he was in jail, so even less...

I have nothing really more to add to this, but you shouldn't have punched the guy you kissed...

Also, yes I realize that this is an old thread, but still...

 

This isn't the spam forum buddy I'd edit that post before a staff member sees it.

As for OP, I'm not sure that the marriage would have been successful anyways, sounds like it would have lasted a couple months at the most
Glad to hear that it's over, no more heartbreak

 

Personally I don't view that kiss as cheating, going further would have been.

Just remind him that you instantly regretted your decision, and that is a sign that you truly love him.