Finding people

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ur age would play a big part into this...cuz even in college the wierdest guys can fit in fine. how old r u

 

I think you should maybe reach out and try to make some new friends or meet some new people. The reality is, it may be difficult to find people who dress exactly like you and listen to the same kinds of music that you like, although is definitely IS possible. You don't want to have to wait around endlessly to find a person like that though.

There are many more things you can have in common with people other than your clothes or the type of music you like, and so maybe you should think about other things that interest you and try to find people who are like you in that way? If you don't think that will be possible, then maybe you should just take a shot at trying to make friends with somebody who may be totally different than you and may have a different perspective, just for a change?

I get along with many people who are very different than me, and people who have totally different perspectives and life experiences. Although we might not be like attached at the hip, or a total match made in heaven, I can respect their differences and find them interesting and unique, and fun to be around. Maybe you should give that a shot too? Just try and be more tolerant of people who think differently than you, and see where that leads you

 

Yeah but I'm almost 20

It's not just about clothes and music it's about disliking peoples perspectives on a lot of things. For example I hate it when guys talk about sex all of the time and count how many girls they've slept with, pointing out girls etc it's not for me, I hate that. It's just hard finding someone who's on the same page as me