How much is too much?

I DON'T WANT TO ENFRINGE UPON THE PORN RULE

I'm just curious from other people, but is over excessive masturbation bad for you? For example maybe 2-3 day and during the summer I could get up to 4. I'm still producing, but I don't know if this is healthy. Once again not trying to be perv or somethin, but I just love naked women and I want to know if I'm screwing myself over for later. (Get the pun? haha)

 

Don't worry, you're not breaking any rule with that.

There's nothing wrong with that at all, it's perfectly natural. And 2-3 times is normal, to be honest it's 5+ people consider it out of the ordinary.

And no, it won't do you any bad at all to be masturbating now, it won't affect you in later life.

 

Not at all, as Laptop said it's natural.

It's when you choose masterbation above something else, or it begins to effect your routine that you should reflect upon how serious the problem may be.

 

How old are you?

Excessive masturbation isn't really a problem at all, unless you are starting to feel like you are addicted to and/or excessively watching pornography. Alot of kids tend to excessively masturbate when they are younger and their sex drives are perking up, yet they haven't had any real sexual encounters yet and so they spend alot of time thinking and fantasizing about having one.

Until it gets to the point where you feel its out of control, I really wouldn't worry about it Its normal, and quite natural, and most people probably do it more than you'd think.

 

17.

Been doin it for years but I didn't wanna get a disorder or some shit

 

If you're are in a sexual relationship with someone else it will decrease your sex drive, I've found. If you're not, go for it.

 

This point that Turin makes can actually be true, from what I understand. If you get used to always getting off by yourself or with porn, it HAS been known to negatively affect people's relationships, and caues them to be disinterested in sex with their partner or preferential to masturbation instead.

Like I said though, you sound fairly young, and I assume that if you are masturbating this much that you do not have a sexual partner of your own, and therefore you are simply just getting the release that you need.

I would not be too worried about it, unless you ARE in a relationship and you are finding that you are prefering to masturbate on your own rather than engage in sexual activities in your partner. At that point, it may be a problem.

 

Excessive masturbation is not a problem. Trust me-- there are no rules to be followed. It's a personal thing.
There are no disorders that you can develop. Pornography, though, may distort your views on "real" sex.

Turin: In my last relationship I was very sexually active and I still masturbated frequently. I don't think that it is that big of a deal. But you're right-- preferring it to actual relations may be a problem.

 

DUDE. FROM EXPERIENCE. Don't masturbate that much and if you do, USE LUBE.

If you jerk off all the time, toes pointed, no lube, that kind of shit, you will never last more than 30 seconds with a real woman.

If you're going to masturbate, use lubricant, relax your body, and last as long as possible. You're young, train yourself to be a beast in the sack while you still can. When you feel like you're going to cum, stop touching your dick and wait until the feeling goes away.. Then continue.. Do this a few times and when you finally do cum, it'll feel 10 times better, and you just increased your stamina..