Need some help.

So, I liked this girl for about a year, and in class I would always be so nice to her and help her with any class work she needed help with. Thankfully, we had every single class together. There was even a point when this one kid in our class wouldn't stop grabbing her ass and she told me about it and I made him stop. I don't know, I'm so nice to women and I'm not the worst looking dude, but I'm a little bit overweight so maybe that's why I haven't had much luck. But anyway, she was on probation and she had some problems with pills, and got sent to a residential center which is sort of like a rehab I guess. I felt sort of scared to write her a letter, it took me from the beginning of October to the beginning of January to muster up the courage to write her one. I didn't necessarily tell her everything, how I felt about her and such. I only wrote that I was trying to lose a little weight and I was planning on asking her to prom and I was hoping she'd be out of the rehab place by then and I told her I'd still like to take her when she got back. She never wrote back. I don't really know what to think, maybe she was too scared to write back and say that she had feelings for me, or maybe she just doesn't like me like that in return, or maybe she didn't know how to tell me know, but idk. I still think about her just like I used to, I think about her all day, and when I lay down at 12am to go to sleep, I can't fall asleep until about 1:30am because I just imagine her and I married one day and I think of how well we would be together and how much happier she would be with me and she wouldn't need to do drugs anymore. Anyway, I'll stop while I'm ahead, I would definitely like a girl's advice on this matter. I just basically would like to know what you guys and girls think I should do, and what do you think the reason she didn't write back for. The reason I'd like a girl to reply to this is because maybe she can put herself in the girl I like's shoes and see how she would react in that situation. Thank you.

 

That is like the most sweetest thing I've read in days.

Is it possible to visit her? Maybe the residential center doesn't want to interfere with the rehabilitation so the letter wasn't sent to her. I think the best thing you can do for now is wait until she comes back. That is if you're willing to stay.

Best of luck!

 

I agree. The place may have read your letter and decided it wouldn't help her so she didn't get it. I'm not exactly sure why they would, but I could see it happen.

 

Thanks for the replies so far, but sadly no, I can't go there, it's too far away. And I know that a ton of her friends send her letters back and forth and stuff, so idk why they would keep mine from her.