Fucked up big time

So last night i blacked out i drunk so much, im 16 and have been going out with my girlfriend for 7 months, i love her to pieces tbh but last night i called her every name under the sun, everything and now she says i have one more chance, im going to make things right, but i asked her if she gives a fuck any more and she said kind off.

Shes acting so weird with me and i want to get back to normal, what to i do? i love her to bits and i know i was in the wrong i fucked up.. some one help!

 

Try going to the personal support subsection. You'd probably get better answers there

 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CywExjzun7g

Listen to this. Then cut yourself and rock back and forth in the shower. Worked for me.

 

Serves you right. Being drunk is no excuse for treating someone like shit, you've got to understand why she wouldn't be bothered, I wouldn't want it in her position tbh

 

Yes, try Personal Support for this.

Explain to her you where drunk and couldn't control what you were saying? Surely she'd understand, pretty sure she has been drunk at some point.

 

i know, i get that if it was the other way around i would be the exact same i just to sort it all out :/

 

You where drunk, if you can't control your alcohol then I do not understand why you would drink, especially at 16.

If I where her I would have dumped you right there on the spot.

You need to stay away from any one/anything that makes you act like a moron and really pull something out of your ass if you want to keep this relationship going.

Sorry to act like a jerk but you need to here this kind of stuff be for you fuck up again.

 

You have somewhat of an excuse since you were really drunk. Just tell her it will never happen again and don't let it. There is no reason things shouldn't work out. If she isn't willing to give you another chance then she isn't right for you anyways.

 

There may be a bigger problem at hand than what you think you said.

You could have been hitting on another chick, or saying things worse than swearing at her, such as, saying you wanna break up or something along those lines.

But, you really gotta make it up to her. Do something that you usually don't do, take her out to eat at a nice place, do what she wants.

 

You clearly fucked up. Hopefully you'll learn that getting blackout drunk isn't really that fun. Get borderline blackout drunk instead. TBH, if you called her names and stuff you don't deserve her. Learn how to treat a lady.

 

Well it's obvious that from you calling her these names while you were drunk is because you've felt that way towards her before when you were sober . You just never came out with it all and told her .
This is a mistake due to the fact if you really have any form of respect and honesty for her , and also have her trust in your hands , you need to tell her anything and everything that you ever feel such as this .
Hiding these things , which are the little things , will just amount to bigger problems between the two of you . I once told my girlfriend's best friend that she was acting like a bitch . Turns out she went and told my girlfriend that and we got into a whole argument because I didn't tell her that's how she was acting from the beginning on my own .
Coming out with these things will save your ass in the long run , and from the looks of it , you let it all build up inside until you got to the breaking point ; which is when you got drunk . So just either stay away from alcohol or drink less alcohol if you don't want her to find out about these little feelings you have about the way she acts sometimes . But I highly recommend you just always be honest with her and if she's ever being a bitch , just tell her . I'm telling you from past experience this is your best bet .
Goodluck in the future !

 

I've already answered your thread in the Personal Support sub-forum so I'm not going to write everything out again . Try to get a mod to lock this thread seeing as this is the wrong forum .

 

If it's meant to be, you'll both overcome these problems together.

If she's not 100% committed it isn't going to work.

 

If i was in your situation id do something ive never done for her before. That is if you sincerely care about her and she makes a big difference in your life. Do something out the norm to catch her attention and talk to her. Dont smother her and give her her space if she asks to be left alone. Just make it up to her

 

Buy her something expensive, always works. Maybr even let her out of the kitchen for a day if your feeling generous.

 

I feel for you man, I've been in your position myself many times. Except in the end I ended up losing the girl..

My advice to you would be to put all your effort into the relationship if you want to keep her around. Even if that means you have to stop drinking or seriously tone it down, who gives a shit. Pay attention to your girl man, give her the respect she deserves & the time and attention she needs. Being drunk is no excuse to be abusive towards her, even though I know what its like and that you probably did not mean it at all. You've apologized to her and now you have to earn her trust back, which might not be easy. Just don't slip up again man, show her how much she means to you and she will stick around.

I was in your position years ago, in a long term relationship with a girl that I still love. But I was too stubborn and too afraid to give up my love of partying, and my image & reputation in highschool as Mr. Popular and the party boy. But guess what happened to me... its years later and all those "friends" I once cared so much about partying with are now long gone and are total losers, and the girl who I love is long gone as well. I wish I could go back and make the right choice now but it is too late. You have the chance to turn things around, and show this girl that you care about her. Take that chance and don't mess it up again.

 

Sounds like its time for you to put on the charm, if it just happened let it simmer for a lil bit and wait then call her up and have a nice chat.

 

You booze you loose...good riddance. Just ask her how you can make it up to her.

 

Honestly, it's your own fault and I wouldn't blame her if she didn't want to be with someone that could even possibly act like that towards someone they apparently "love".

If you want her back, take her out somewhere nice. Go to a private area near a lake or something and just talk with her. That's all really.

 

Sit down and explain exactly what happened. Talking is probably the only way this can get sorted. Good Luck