First time with a girl alone at my apartment..?

So basically I've known this girl going on 4 years. We've been off and on as far as liking at each other, its been kind of a flirtationship thing. However, this time it seem's a lot more serious than it has been, and this isn't the kind of girl I want to miss out on either, so I'm pretty much willing to do whatever need be to make her mine.

Being in Kansas, there is literally nothing to do here. Being almost 16 and not having a car isn't helpful either. Hanging out at people houses is pretty much ALL you can do in the winter as it gets retardedly cold here. Me and her have been trying to catch each other alone, but us both being fairly shy people, herself more than I, makes that pretty hard on top of us always having others around when we're with each other. This will be pretty much the only time I've been alone with her for an extended period of time.

I want this to be as painless as possible as far as awkwardness goes, however there's not really a lot to do in my apartment. We've pretty much already laid out that there wont be anything to do besides watch a movie, or just kind've browse around on the web with my laptop from wherever we are. When i suggested just laying in my bed and watching a movie together, she seemed pretty excited about that so thats what I'm leaning towards. Having very little experience of being a lone with girls, yet alone the non-existent experience of being alone with one I like, I just feel like it's going to be weird.

What are some things we could talk about/do? I'm going to have to be really nit picky about this, seeing as I've been really good friends with her for 4 years almost, there isn't a lot about her I can ask that I don't already know. I really don't want to just sit there in silence the whole time either. When I say do, don't think of anything sexual. She's a really catholic girl, saving herself for marriage and what not, which I'm fine with. She even said she wouldn't care if I played CoD and just talked to her while she watched (Dear god, where can you find a girl like that?).

Any advice to keeping things.. normal? Would be much appreciated.
Any suggested movie's to watch?
Any general tips with women could be helpful.

Whatever you've got Sythe, throw it at me.

 

Oh the dreaded awkward silence...or even worse the conversation along the lines of

"What do you wanna do"
"I don't know, what do you wanna do"
"I don't know"

There's always fun things to do, even in the house. Yes watching a movie is one of them, but if you're really interested in this girl, do something that will create a bond between you guys.

Stuck at home? Bust out a cookbook and do some home cooking with her. Done with your meal? Buy a puzzle or a boardgame to interact with her. During these activities, keep a light conversation rolling. Nothing too deep, keep it more surface level and a "get to know you" kind of conversation. Watching movies and surfing online are good ways to pass the time, but you and her will be engaged with the computer/TV as opposed to each other.

Also, don't try and pull any funny physical stuff if you truly want to get to know her. The last thing you want to do is overstep your bounds and do something you'll regret that'll distance her.

 

Thanks, I hadn't thought of making cookies with her or anything, and I'm sure its something we can make fun.

 

Why not ask a friend what movie's she likes, what she likes doing or talking about? That could get a conversation going and you can watch a movie that she likes and she'll be like WTF i love this movie...

 

Try watching something you both find funny so it can loosen you both up and it wont be so awkward. once you guys are both comfortable with being with each other it will only get easier. try to talk to her about herself, get into deep conversations and discussions and really pick her brain if things get boring. movies are really the best way to go IMO, or if you know something she's interested in try to relate to that or do things that she can relate to. If all else fails, make her laugh. Girls love to have fun.

Tell me how it goes :3

 

^ I like that. Finding a mutual "link" always does the trick.

However... if you are trying to hit that...be the man here and just make it happen, plain and simple.

 

knowing someone for 4 years means that you should have a pretty good knowledge of what they like or dont like so i think it might be a bit easier for you
movies are definitely a good idea if you have nothing to talk about, you could clean the apartment, or you could cook/bake something

 

You can never go wrong with movies my friend It ALWAYS works for me

 

Boggle.

No but seriously, try a board game or cards if you think that will work. There's some good card games out there, like Apples to Apples.

 

Movie bro make sure its not a romance.. Cause you will feel awkward. Make sure its a action packed movie.. Then maybe after cook My girlfriend loves to play chess/monopoly... but all girls are different. Which i love mine

 

Yeah this guys right, you've known her for 4 years, think outside the box, make something, could be food, could be something even more outrageous. Make her laugh, keep the conversation rolling and relax, if your meant to be in each others company then just roll with it. Act yourself, nothing can go wrong.