Parents over reacting?

Hey I'm a pretty decent kid that doesn't do drugs alcohol smoke or anything like that I'm just a tall nerd that has a minimum wage job and quite a few friends. Anyway my mom thinks I'm this little he'll raiser because I've had to stay a little later at work because I didn't have time to clean up before closing because customers come in so I'm like 30 mins late like twice a month. And she thinks I've been out drinking and doing that crap. A few weeks ago I went to a nearby town to hang out with some friends and get a bite to eat, so I left 2 messages on the answering machine saying were I was going and who I was with. An when I got home I got my ass ripped, I got all my privoleges taken away no tv in my room no car no money in my bank account upon other things The largest being them called boys town (a place for troubled youth with drug or alcohol backgrounds) and since then there has been a counselor comeing like once a week to talk about what ive done and how to make me a better kid, and if this doesn't work out then they'll send me to boys town. Is it just me or are they over reacting?

 

Either you're trolling, or you're not telling us the whole story.

But yes, that sure is overreacting, and they can't just send you somewhere just because they think that you are doing those things.

Also, how old are you, and what country do you live in, if you don't mind me asking?

 

Interesting.. I would think they are overreacting a bit, but you need to get on their level intellectually so that you can all come to a better understanding on what's really going on. Have adult conversations with them. If all else fails, get a note from your boss every time you have to stay late.

 

Yeah, their overreacting..lol

 

I'm 16 live in Nebraska and am a junior. My mom takes alot of medication and she over reacts alot because of that, she gets very immature at times and slams doors when she's angry which I havnt done since I was 10. They also say this is because of a repeating of disrespectful behavior towards them, which is somewhat true but I just try not to even talk to them because I'd get in trouble for something stupid (such as going to the bathroom... True story)

 

I hope this is just a mega troll attempt.

Because if its not, you have a SERIOUS case of overreacting parents on your hands. I thought my parents were bad growing up, as I was the eldest of 4 boys and their first parenting experiences were all with me. But the difference was that I actually WAS a little shit, smoking, drinking, and doing drugs and coming home at all hours of the night and driving my parents up the wall until they kicked me out. You sound like a godamn angel.

You need to have a serious talk with your parents, because I don't think they appreciate what a good child you are and how easy they have it. Just one more comment - if you are old enough to drive, and control your own bank account, and these sorts of things, then you should be old enough to actually tell your parents to fuck off if they try to take away your car keys or make you hand over your bank card. That is utter bullshit! Once you get to a certain size/age, you have to use those things to your advantage to draw a line as to how far you can be punished. You can't be 18 or 19 years old and having your parents "ground" you from going out and driving your car.

If you are much younger (like 14-16), unfortunately you just may have to bite your tongue and tuck your tail between your legs until your older. Otherwise your parents really CAN send you to boystown or wherever they want, and there really isn't too much you can do unless you think you are able to go out and get your own place and provide for yourself.

Best of luck man, parents can be very difficult sometimes. The trick is to find the "middle ground" with them, so you can all live in harmony.

 

If they are serious..... Just have them Peetest you

 

Theyre overreacting lol.. try to put your foot down or be more independent without being disrespectful or rude.

 

Some parents are absolutely crazy. One of my ex-girlfriends I didn't see for a month because she had a "B" in Spanish.

 

Trolll? or you parents are fucking crazy.

I have an idea, get some weed, bake it into brownies, feed it to them, call the cops on them.

That outta teach'em

 

Lol I'm lovin the brownie idea and no this is not Trillin everything I said is the truth. Also my mom and dad are divorced and I live with my mom, my step da is really cool but the bitch of the family is my mom, I have had tons of kids in my school and there parents tell me how much thy are over reaction and that it's just regular teenage behavior, I'm not an angel I have a smart ass mouth on me that gets me into trouble but I've never done anything illegal. Also I have mentioned moving out but whenever I say that they tell me thell call the cops and declare me as an out of control youth so I would be living in a group home.

 

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Emancipation_of_minors

Do that, then move out...Prove to the court that you are a good kid and your moms a cunt...

 

Maybe overreacting just a little

 

Very weird man if this is the whole story they're definantly overreacting!

 

Try and move to your biological dads's house? Get confidential help from a school therapist/administrator. Your school is obligated to help you. Get a therapist, they are also obligated to maintain confidentiality. Make sure they know that your mother is unstable. However, where else would you live?

 

^^This. Maybe not move out, but definitely try to seek help.

 

not sure if serious

 

As long as you are truthfully the good kid you say you are, they are completely overreacting.

 

aggressively unreasonable parents. the more unreasonable they are, the more aggressive they get when people question their lunacy.

you're on your way to being independent already, got a job and apparently have decent head on your shoulders. move out as soon as you can. but you'll still visit on holidays because if not they'll rape you with the guilt stick, whatcha gonna do.

 

I've Planned on moving out since I was 13. They have to have control of my life and I get in trouble for resisting, I just got in trouble today for being home 30 mins after school instead of right after. So now things are more strick. Also out of nowhere they called my boss saying that I have been buying scratch ticket (I work at a gas station) because they want me to get fired. Btw it's untrue all my friends and coworkers and boss know that. But they called my boss then she called all te employees asking if they have ever seen me or heard of me buying them. And they all said no. I fucking hate my parents.