Tomorow

Hey guys, just a quick help thread :/

Im going out with my girlfriend tomorow, for the first time on our own, just wanted some tips as to where I should take her, should I kiss her on the cheek when we meet up, etc, just any tips?

I dont wanna freak her out, so I kind of need a lil bit of help. Thanks!

EDIT: JUST CAME BACK FROM THE DATE, WAS PRETTY AWESOME. HELD HANDS THROUGH ALL OF IT, AND WE WERE STANDING ON THIS LITTLE JETTY IN THE PARK NEXT TO A LAKE, I LOOKED AT HER, SHE LOOKED BACK AND I KISSED HER LIPS, SHE SMILED AFTERWARDS AND HELD MY HAND, SO ITS ALL GOOD!

 

How long have you been going out with her?

 

on our own?? do u go out with ur parents or what?

 

A week or so, but we have known each other since were were like 4 (13 now, almost 14) and there has been shit between us for ages, apparently she had been wanting to ask me out for ages before I asked her. Her friends call us 'the perfect couple'.

 

on our own, there is absolutely no way on this earth I would let my parents come, they would totally ruin it!

 

Umm since I don't know what she's like I don't know how she would react to anything making it hard to give you any advice.

 

well, she is pretty open with the whole touching side of things, she doesnt really seem to mind too much, any general advice?

 

Good luck! I think you should just not worry about what you do just relax and go with what feels right.
As for where you should take her. What is your budget?
Also considering you are 13 almost 14 perhaps just to the cinema that what I did then anyway so yeah upto you. If you do pick the cinema make a choice on the movie like nothing too sad I saw something on tv saying romcoms are best for dates as they make the mood more romantic

 

Thanks for the advice, the cinema seems like a good choice cos I have vouchers for it, and I have practically no money....
Hopefully we will end up kissing, but its kind of unlikely, although when she talks to her friends about me and they mention kissing, apparently she just gets all shy and says 'Im not telling' and stuff like that, so maybe it will happen.

 

You should probably hug her when you meet her if you're not sure about kissing her yet. Try to go to the movies if you can. If you do go to the movies ask what she wants to see and stuff.

 

lol you waited till 13 to get a girlfriend LOL. When I was 13 a date was considered going to the park, doesn't have to be anything special your not going to get any action either way.

Take her to a theme park.

 

Don't get too crazy. Depending on how she acts, I might give her a kiss on the cheek when you meet up, but only if you'd think she'd be honestly okay with it. If nothing else, give her a hug and maybe a kiss on the cheek before you leave.

As for where to take her; that's all you, bud. Try something fun that you can both do, since you haven't been going out very long. Romance-y stuff can wait.

 

Good advice, thanks, I will use it tomorow

 

Just stay cool and don't worry and think about it. Take her to a movie, you pay for her ticket and food.

 

if you're good with talking, take her to the beach for a picnic, with good scenery and view, it costs nearly $0

 

Take her to Sainsbury's. That's nice enough. Be sure to tell us how it went. But seriously, don't be so wimpy about it :S, just go to the movies or a walk or anything!!!!!!!

 

Ask her where she wants to go, or just go to a movie.
If you have no money, take her to your house for a movie lol.

 

If its your first day together, I suggest you just walk around and hold her hand while you do, simple things like holding hands really gets the relationship going good.

 

Take her to the Laker's game tomorrow, or NY/LA playoff game, if you guys live near those.