Relationship problems.

^ lol yeah probably not... XD

 

Try telling her how you feel without being so obvious about it. As in, drop her a compliment here and there every now and then. Get to know what she really likes by asking her best friend, and get to talk to her a bit. Don't be nervous when you're around her but more-so happy to be getting acquainted with her. Don't pressure her into doing things you naturally wouldn't do yourself. Try to become friends of her friends so that a transition into a possible relationship might occur. Joke around with her and make her smile.

There are many things that you can say to a girl but the most part to getting into a relationship is actually getting to -know- them. Try to take it easy and best of luck with the lady friend. If you have any further questions, feel free to ask.

 

Thanks for that Unbanned. Now, do you have any tips on topics to talk to her about?

Also, her friends don't like me very much. But I can just ask her brother can't I?

 

Best advice I can give is don't act like you care, bitches dig that. haha. seriously though, chicks dig guy's who don't care.

And talk to her about what she likes, listen to what she says, remember every word, don't let her know you're that interested, pretend you don't remember shit next time you guys talk about the same thing, hell even repeat the question you asked previously, or talk about the same subject.

Also, depending on your age really, it's better to just to just chill, and let things go with the flow, I've found in past relationships it's much easier to get someone interested just by hanging out with them, and being there friend. Girls are into that kind of shit.

Good luck.

 

>_< I tried that with other girls. Does not work. I don't want to make the same mistake again.

 

Talk to her about every day things. Bring up topics of how the weather is outside, using technology (MSN, Cell Phone, etc). Anything that a female would typically use.

Such as.. If you're talking to her and she pulls out her cell phone, just ask, "What cell do you have?" She may or may not smile but she'll at least know that you're taking notice to her and what she's doing. Persistance in this could possibly lead you into a relationship. I may not be the best to talk to about these kinds of things, but I believe I've had -too much- experience in this field than I need to.

Her brother would definitely be a point of interest, but be careful unless you are good friends with him, as creating a sour relationship with him could lead to problems with his sister.

 

Sorry, I haven't read the whole thread, only most of the first page.

If you want something to talk to her about, go with music. Make sure you know a bit about every genre (The main ones) before you do it. It's probably the easier to talk about, since it's kinda general, but at the same time you find out something she likes + depending on the type of person she is, she might love music. Which means, you know something about her that you didn't know before. It'd be great if you liked the same music, but don't pretend you do, since later on she'll find out (>.<).

 

Also, pipe her down like you've never before, if you get the chance, bitches like good sex. Not spamming/joking, I'm giving my honest opinion and best advice, if you fuck her right, she'll never leave your sight. Especially if you're both still young.

 

Yea but the problem is, you're wrong. Don't come on here telling people false information, it's obvious you're doing nothing to help the situation, but rather hinder it.

Also, the fact you refer to women as "Bitches", shows your opinion is completely invalid and idiotic. If you want to live by your own word, go for it, but don't infect a serious topic with your stupidity.

 

Not all girls are -sensual-. If you read the thread, you would clearly observe that the OP is looking to get into a relationship with a girl. He is not looking for such a thing -yet-, from my understanding. Your opinion is completely unnecessary and unwanted.

Also, from what Ryan had noted, your wording of women as "bitches" shows how useless your contribution(s) are.

 

He doesn't have to listen, I gave my honest opinion, and yeah, you might think it's idiotic, but it's worked for me. And, hopefully it'll work for him. I'm just giving him my best advice.

 

Her brother is my best friend so it's all cool. I don't know what he'd say if he knew I liked his sister though. He's homosexual by the way.

Hmm music and technology. Both good topics. Thanks. Is there stuff that I shouldn't do? I heard girls don't like swearing much.

Jrich, I've had enough of your stupidity. Leave my thread immediately.

Unlike you, I treat women right. I don't call them bitches and I'm not looking for a one-night stand. Post once more on my thread and I'll be reporting you.

 

You're kind of right, swearing isn't a killer deal-breaker. Obviously, if you're sitting there having a general conversation and you keep dropping "fuck" into every sentence, she won't be too impressed. Swearing isn't bad and some people don't even notice it. I don't like it when my girlfriend swears, I find it unattractive, hence why I try not to swear around her.

I'm sure many will agree that the things you shouldn't do are obvious. For most younger (decent) girls, smoking is a no. Drinking is alright, just do it in moderation. As long as you're a nice guy in general and you treat her with respect, I'm sure you'll be fine. Also, you over think it, or try to get yourself prepared too much, there's a bigger chance you'll stuff it. Don't think about it, just do it

 

My dear Ryan, I'm 15 so I pretty much doubt I can smoke and drink lol. Thanks for all the advice man. You've really helped me out