please help - srs thread

I just went on my first trip overseas to Bali from australia, during the time in Bali i met this balanese girl working at the hotel's pub, and she was so nice, funny and attractive, and if uve ever been to Bali you will know how nice the people are there. anyways basically now when i returned to AUstralia im feeling really depressed because to me I am now no longer attracted to any girls here at all. I just feel that they are all just 'bitches' I guess and its depressing to know that im not attracted to anyone I know here. What can i do to change my mindset please, I know this may sound really stupid but its just the way it is and i need help, ty

 

Maybe its the type of girls that you hang out with, or are generally associated with? I'm not completely sure though, as girls tend to kind of differ from area to area in my experience and from what I've personally seen, and so it could be possible that alot of the girls in your area are just bimbos and have that bitchy attitude.

I can tell you though that there ARE plenty of nice, beautiful girls out there with great senses of humour, although they can be hard to find if they are among a swarm of girls like I described above.. Try looking in different social circles and/or atmospheres for these types of girls, rather than looking in clubs, bars, parties etc.

 

try people you wouldn't generally chill with. some people can surprise you, good luck.

 

I agree with BeeVer, and I'm sure there are girls in Australia you would find attractive, you just haven't found them yet.

 

You can't change your mindset because there Is nothing to change. I think your just going through a phase now that your back in Australia. Its just because you have that other women stuck in your head.

 

try going out of state if you have the cash, just get out the normal environment. maybe a road trip is needed

 

Depends ... Age? People change man. Its all about maturity. Plus your mind is still set on that one girl from beli?

 

There are literally so many "fish" in the "sea" the chances of meeting 1 million girls you like more than that one are very likely.