Life(Future)

Ok I want Serious Answers But.. Any ways I'm a bit Scared of Whats coming up the road in life im 17 my freshman and sophomore year of high school I didn't do to well. But I have made Straight A's a all junior and senior year and I really pulled my self together. But What im most scared of is finding a job and college(community). I am Currently Still looking at what type of job I would like ect.. Do you guys have any suggestions. I also Study very hard. Also Have a GF been with her 3 + years shes looking good in life, its just im afraid I will slack and not be good enough in life for her/like Have shitty job ect. (What I'm basically saying is, Can you guys give me a ''few words''. Also does freshman and sop more grades determine what college will accept you?

Will Update on Witch type of Career I want.

 

you need something which will keep you motivated it really helps,I had the same problem as you and once I got some motivation it went really good for me in school I already know what I want to be,that's a pilot

 

the truth is man you will have to start of with a shitty job :\ even if you get into what you want to do you will start at the bottom since you would have no experience so about worrying about finding a good job i wouldnt worry about it everyone goes through the same stuff and cant really help on the grades thing with me being english sorry hope this helped

 

By what i've read, you're on the right track and you are a very good hard working man, a man of honor.

Whenever you need motivation just think about your life, your future what you want, you will be the best, better then anyone else, whenever there is a setback you will bounce back.

Keep up your hard work in your studies, keep faithful to your girlfriend, your life will be fine.

Look at the future with CONFIDENCE! because you are GREAT

 

Honestly, yes, colleges will look at all 4 years of high school, but from my experience, I feel that seeing a huge turnaround in your work ethic will look just as good as straight A's across the board because instead of potentially not trying and still getting good grades, they instead can see without any doubt that you're absolutely willing to put in the work necessary to succeed, and that's what colleges want to see more than anything.

Don't stress yourself out, you're definitely on the right path.

As for career, you usually don't need to pick a major until the spring semester of your sophomore year in college, so you'll have plenty of time to take a variety of classes before you need to decide, and even then, a college major doesn't determine your career. You can always switch it if you don't like it. Just think about it this way. Do what you love, and don't worry about the money. You'll find a way to make money doing what you love, but if you only focus on the money, you'll be miserable. As for the girlfriend, she's obviously stuck around with you for a while now, and if she loves you, then any sort of life with you is a good one, so don't worry about meeting her expectations. Think about what you want, and if she's right for you, she'll stick around regardless.

 

Thanks very much, this really helps.

 

What do you enjoy the most? Having a job doing something that you really enjoy will make you successful. I enjoy working outdoors, but I also love computers. I became an electrical apprentice because I'd like to move into mining and/or oil.

If you set your heart on studying something that you enjoy, you will live a very happy life with your girl.

 

Honestly, If you want a job, you should only work like once or twice a week at most because you should be focusing on school. School and work can and will get in the way of studying, testing, and fun. A good starting job could be like at a supermarket or something basic where you can control your schedule.