Alright, so there's this girl named Chelsey. Last Sunday at the fair we were talking and I asked her to hang out and she said yes. So ever since Sunday we have been talking A LOT. But for the last day and a half she just seems to ignore me. Should I just move on or should I stick with it and see if she wants to become 'more than friends'?
ok look ignore her too message her like atleast ONCE A WEEK! and she will realize that ur not into her and she will be into u any questions message me on msn
She used to start all the conversations with me but now I need to do it, so it seems like she lost interest I guess. I'm not really an expert though so :|
All girls are like this. Bring up new things and keep a spark. Don't talk for a long period of time though. If you talk for like 10 minutes then go all she'll think about is you.
What should I talk about though? Everytime I think of something it's like we've already talked about it before >.> Ideas please. Oh, and if I quit talking she'll say, "So...." :|
Bring up random shit. I seriously talked to a girl for like an hour about a platypus named fudge that we were going to order on the internet, and how the guy who packed it would be gay because he was packing fudge. Just be random, not faggot random like yelling "cheese" on the phone or something, but just kinda random.
Well, just don't be too obsessed. Girls HATE it when guys get obsessed with them. Don't try to talk to her all the time, she will think that you're being clingy. And, just wait till you hang out with her to see if she's interested. Make a move, what's the worst that can happen?
Thats not always true. They act like they don't want you to talk to them a lot, but the fact is ALL girls like attention.
Well, I guess it varies from girl to girl. I have a lot of close girl friends, and a lot of the time they think that it's creepy if a guy won't stop talking to them. Some like it, it just depends on the guy and the girl. And it's true that all girls like attention, but too much just creeps them out sometimes.
Thats the thing though.. My best friend is a girl, and she always tells me about creepers who don't leave her alone. If she really didn't like the attention, though, why would she tell me about it? It's not like I really care, or an do anything about it..
Well, I don't know the girl you are talking about personally, so I don't want to take words out of her mouth. If she's your best friend, she probably tells you things unconditionally whether she likes or hates them, that's what best friends do, tell each other things. If a best friend tells you something, it doesn't always mean it's a good thing. Like, she could tell you about all the guys that creep on her because she hates it, or she could just be trying to make you jealous, or for any other reason. It really comes down to who the girl is.
If she seemed to ignore the past few days, it is probably because she started realizing that you actually like her, and more than a friend. This means that you should back off a little, and start to show interest in other girls.
Yeah I guess I shouldn't have used her as an example because nothing you said really fits her personality, haha.
Heh, yeah. There are sooo many different girls out there, it's hard to tell. They are sooo unpredictable, since they are extremely hormonal and emotional at this age. Their personalities are constantly changing.
She's known I've had feelings for like.. 2 weeks. Oh, and she's talking to me right now so obviously I havn't scared her off too much.
I believe mate, that you show your affection and ove to her, as somebody will do it if you are too late. Anyway, all the best!
