girlfriend help

Dont go around spending that much money a present.

If shes that materialistic, you shouldn't be with her. You want her to love YOU, not what you have, or can get for her.

If you really love her, you'll show it, not by buying her a 500 dollar bag, but by actually giving her something that matters. I guarantee you, even just a scrapbook full of pictures of the greats times you two have had together, would warm her heart more than an expensive bag.

How long have you two been together if i may ask?

 

thought i should post an update. I created this thread on 2nd of march or so, bought her a gucci clutch on the 4th for like 350$ despite lots of advice telling me not to. took her for a romantic weekend at my parents cottage in the countryside. it didnt cost me much only food + wine etc maybe a 50-100$ in expenses.

last week on the 9th of march she dumped me. i was real upset and then angry but im ok now. this was an expensive lesson i suppose but atleast i learnt it now.

 

stop right there dude, if u have to give her "stuff" to show her that u care then what kind of girl is she in the 1st place? if she really cares about u she will see past the money and see whats inside, and thats what matters.

 

It's not the price tag that counts , Plan something romantic , a dinner or something where you cook for her. Don't just buy her this and that. If she truly likes you she will appreciate this a lot more.

 

tattoo her name on you, lol.

 

You should never drop 500$ on a girl, especially if you two aren't even together right now. That is absurd.

Been there, done that, couldn't afford to buy the T-Shirt after.

 

This right here is telling me:

If she expects gifts that are super expensive because she has some superficial title that hasn't meant shit since the dark ages, she's waaaay out of your league.

Would you like to spend your life with someone who is spoiled rotten? I know I sure wouldn't. Then again, I'm a little more country than that.

 

I hate it when my boyfriend spends more than like $20 on gifts for me. As long as you show her you love her still, she will most likely decide the same way as if you spent thousands. If you do spend a lot and she sticks around because of it, she's most likely in it for the money.