Doesn't matter what bot you use, you can get banned botting. Even 2hours of botting can get you banned, so be careful. Don't bot on accounts you don't want to risk losing
The validation email should be instant but sometimes it takes a bit and sometimes it doesn't come at all; this is the fault of IP.B.
I can manually validate you, message me here http://dreambot.org/forums/index.php/user/25-swaq/