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Always wanted a gf or even wife but I’ve only had one for a few months. Ive always been well off I drove a Porsche and wore a $6k watch but still no girl would talk to me. The one gf I had I found on a dating site but that’s filled with spam bots now.

I think my only problem is I look young for my age.

What do?
 
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If you want a GF bad, start no-life-ing Tinder. I've got quite a few friends who have long-term relationships from there. You've just gotta plant more seeds, water the plants you like, and see which ones grow.

You don't need wear expensive clothes and drive a nice car. You need to love yourself first and then you'll find a girl that loves you.
 
this probably isn't the place to ask lul

that said i've been married 3 years and my wife and i met on a random music tracking site, i think it's more natural if it just happens rather than mechanically clicking through tinder or whatever. try hanging out in bars with the boys or somethin. material goods are only going to attract material girls
 
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The fact that you state what you drive and what you wear means that you seriously need to re-evaluate what attracts a woman to a man. Second of all you don’t go and “find” a gf, it will happen, you don’t want to force these things. Work on your self and learn to appreciate yourself.
 
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If you want a GF bad, start no-life-ing Tinder. I've got quite a few friends who have long-term relationships from there. You've just gotta plant more seeds, water the plants you like, and see which ones grow.

You don't need wear expensive clothes and drive a nice car. You need to love yourself first and then you'll find a girl that loves you.

Don’t get any matches on tinder but as an experiment I put up some other dudes pic that’s better looking and what do you know... women actually start acting like women! They get all loving and desperate and for the first time they act like actual females towards this new pic. Crazy.


Grow a beard if you can. How old are you?

Good advice was working until I moved back with parents and they bugged me to trim it. 24.
 
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Don’t get any matches on tinder but as an experiment I put up some other dudes pic that’s better looking and what do you know... women actually start acting like women! They get all loving and desperate and for the first time they act like actual females towards this new pic. Crazy.




Good advice was working until I moved back with parents and they bugged me to trim it. 24.

Do you live in a small town?
 
Don’t get any matches on tinder but as an experiment I put up some other dudes pic that’s better looking and what do you know... women actually start acting like women! They get all loving and desperate and for the first time they act like actual females towards this new pic. Crazy.




Good advice was working until I moved back with parents and they bugged me to trim it. 24.


Move out of your parents house (especially if your well off)

Dont drive a porsche

Don't ask for girl advice on a runescape forums

-These 3 steps will help you alot
 
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Stop thinking about sex and do you. If you look for a girl most chances are you’ll lose yourself. You want someone to love you for who you are, not what you act like to fulfill some desire.

Work on your credible skills, productive talents and distinctive character. Chasing women is absolutely unproductive, especially when they don’t even have to attempt to fulfill romantic desires.
 
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Plant seeds, water the seeds, harvest.
 
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Don't ask for girl advice on a runescape forums
This is where it goes wrong all the time. We're not a Runescape forum. Either way, moving this to Personal Support.
 
If a girl really cares about what car you drive, what watch you have, is that someone you want as your wife?

I know a lot of people wouldn't, most would just keep her as a side piece lol.

So you've come to the conclusion that its your looks that are the reason for you not getting chicks. Don't worry, you'll find someone.

Are you overweight? Groomed? Do you come off as snobby? If you're not in good shape, start eating better and hit the gym. If you want something, you gotta work for it. No matter how unattractive your face may be I 100% guarantee you women will find you attractive if you are in good shape and don't have the personality of a dickhead.
 
Go gym, get good job, be intelligent, travel
It will happen nromally
My GF and i have dated for 5 years now and we dated because i met her at a speech for saving the environment
Be confident is a biggest thing, dont be scared to ask to do something for example going for coffee
Why u have to show off 6k watch lol?...When its her bday u have to buy her a6k watch lol so be careful
 
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Mutual friends are a good way to find new people.
Don't be desperate, and play your strong points. Don't overcompensate by showing off or being arrogant. Go to events and meet like-minded people, great way to break the ice. GL
 
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Be open to anything (legal) and don't get arrogant because even if you have money, 99.9% of the loyal and good girls won't be interested in it.
 
In my personal experience it’s better to not chase after women, it’s true what they say about when the time is right love will find you.

I spent years trying to find the perfect woman I’d want to spend the rest of my life with, just like you I look young for my age and no one really went for it.

The tips I can give is be patient, be yourself (don’t try to put on a fake persona to impress), find a woman you have mutual interests with (anything from music to gaming to art, generally just something you’re both passionate about) and be confident, confidence may take a little to get used to but once the conversation starts flowing and you’re genuinely involved with one another it’ll come naturally.

Hope this helps out and good luck :)
 
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With you being well-off, you wanna make sure you don't flaunt it too much, if you do, you may get some gold-diggers coming your way. Just be careful with whatever you do.
 
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Patience. For me, I go through waves of sexual activity and a woman (or women). And then there will be a wave of a dry spell with little luck and activity.

It always swings back, though. Just remember that and be patient. Don't force things, let the higher power.
 
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