Some advice needed..

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Lol. So cute.

You're young. Very very likely the relationship wouldn't have lasted forever seeing as she was willing to do that. (Get drunk with a guy she knows she ahs feelings for)

You're young. You like this girl, she likes you, ask her out. It is very likely it won't last too long between you two either. It's all about the experience, fun, and growth.

Literally, the only thing you have to be as a young guy to get a girl is confident. So go for what you want.

 

meh, kinda don't agree :/

 

I entirely agree. Three years, while it may have been a good chunk of time, if she was willing to do this with you, albeit being drunk, she was likely unhappy in her relationship and wanted an out. She may be upset for awhile to come, but it will likely be worth your time to get to know her more and have a relationship. Don't expect it to last, as she seems like the cheating type (who knows though), but explore your options in life.

 

Dunworry said pretty much everything that I would say too. I'd just like to add that a lot of the individuals I have met through my life that have cheated on past partners go on to do it to other partners as well. That goes not only for young people but also for much older people too.

Go for what you want and enjoy but try not to get tunnel vision in the relationship either, you don't want to waste your younger years in a situation you don't enjoy.

 

I have a friend (She is a girl) and she tells me a lot. She told me she is unhappy with her boyfriend of 4 years, confidentially (she will remain anonymous so it's still confidential), and said she is 'scared' to break up with him. This is not because he abuses her or anything, it's because its been so long and despite not being happy, she's letting it be a way of life instead of going with her heart instinct.

If you genuinely like this girl, go for it. If there's a spark (there clearly is), don't let anything stop you. The thing is, would she break your heart like she did her boyfriend? After all, once a cheat, always a cheat (So they say). Could you see you lasting with this girl, or do you just want a bit of 'fun' as they say. Think about it and think is it worth wrecking somebody else's relationship for your own sake? Speak with the girl, if she is unhappy then that's fine, but if not, respect it, step back and don't interfere.


Good luck.

 

Been in the same position only the boyfriend of her was also a friend of mine. I felt terrible but yea love is love if it's for real you can't hide it.

 

Go for it dude. It would be a shame if you didn't, as you (and her) fucked up a long lasting relationship, so better grab your chances, otherwise all the hassle was for nothing.

 

... Flirting with someones girlfriend while their in a relationship..

 

Firstly, both you and this young girl should never have kissed and you shouldn't have put their relationship in jeopardy like that. However, what's done is done, and it would be a complete waste for you two to throw away your feelings for the sake of appeasing her ex-boyfriend.

Talk to her. Find out whether or not she is going to try to get back with her ex.

 

If true love was involved, her boyfriend wouldn't have ended things with her. I'm not saying he wouldn't be mad, cause yes he's not going to be happy! I'm saying if it was meant to be she'll be back with him. If not, maybe she's meant to be with you. You won't know unless you try, and you won't be able to try unless you want to and bring it up to her.

If she's mad at you, she'll get over it soon. After all, it's hard to stay angry at someone forever.. forever is a long time.

 

It isn't completely your fault. You didn't force her to kiss you. She chose to (I hope lol). Although do you really want to be with a girl knowing she is capable of cheating on you? Seeing how she just showed you she is willing to cheat on her boyfriend of 3 years... Also don't get into a relationship with her because you feel guilty that her boyfriend broke up with her. Don't feel like you are responsible to fill her void.

 

it was her choice to kiss you, however if you have feelings for her i would tell her. or maybe wait a bit to feel it out and see what happens with her bf

 

Its her fault for her actions not yours. Now you could either go out with girl or leave it be, but if you do keep an eye because she could be hanging with someone else down the road and grow feelings and history could repeat itself. Kmjt summed this up pretty well.

 

Meh both of you had alcohol in your systems, it's nothing to lose sleep over really since she agreed to continue kissing you. Why not try to have a relationship with her since it seems both of you are really close/have feelings for each other?

 

It's wrong that you ruined their relationship, but it's been done. If you like her, there's nothing stopping you now. Go for it and ask her out.

 

You willingly lead a girl on who was in a serious relationship. It's dickheads like you that make decent guys paranoid. I hope he snaps your jaw as it is 100% your fault.

 

These hoes ain't loyal.

 

let things cool down.

as well its equally her fault, as she could have controlled the situation but decided not to. If he dumped her then she deserved it. I wouldn't date a girl like that either, if she did that on him, what is stopping her from not doing it on you?

 

You are a shit person for doing what you did while they were still together, same goes for her. Just don't get involved with girls that are "taken", cause the obvious problem here is that if she cheated on him then what prevents her from cheating on you? The major blame is on her but you are not free of blame either.