Sent my girlfriend some hurtful texts

In the morning she didn't told me she would go the university because she has some pending payments that she has to pay and it was a bad day for me because the first class I attended today was English and my professor told me straight forward that I should drop English cos they're better without me. I was literally pissed off and I have anger issues so I would sometimes go wild when I'm very angry and I saw her walking in the hallway (she wasn't walking towards and cos I'm in the bathroom and I saw her while she didn't see me) and it got me in the nerves why she has to lie about it.

I know it's very stupid because it's such a little thing, but I sent her texts that would really hurt anyone. I even texted her and asked her if is she just using me cos since the last few days, she's been asking me for help and it's about financial problems and she told me she wouldn't attend classes until she settles her payment. AND IT WOULD BE ON MONDAY.

We talked right now on phone, she's angry and asked me whether if do I still want to be with her and I told her yes, also told her if we sort it out because I should've think before acting so.

She said if I'm gonna keep on like this (anger issues thing, lack of self control cos I really lose myself when I get angry), she's going to call it quits.

 

Frankly I would agree with her to some extent. In a relationship you need to hold your tongue and not assume everytime. But even outside of your relationship, I think it's worth trying to work on and manage your anger issues. I went through a similar thing in my life, so if you need tips, let me know.

 

We just settled it a few hours ago, it took her some giggles and hugs lol but seriously I needed help with anger management.

 

I think it's a good idea for you to practice on controlling your anger, not just for your girlfriend's sake, but for your sake as well.

Some comments are better left to yourself rather than being let out.

Try venting to yourself in your head rather than screaming it out.

 

Another update, someone keeps on texting her that I gave her number to that person. Do you think that person is just trying make us split? Don't really know what to do but she told me she's going to change number and I only know 1 person who knows her number but he doesn't texts her but I am not certain if it's really him.

What should I do? Ignore those people and change number or confront them just in case but I think ignoring them would be better because it's just like trolls over the internet "Don't feed the trolls".

 

yeah i broke up with virginworry because he did the same thing..

as for the texts number changes are simple, and if you don't want that blacklist the number using the phone, or call the provider up and ask them to do it :]

 

If you ever do, shoot me a PM on sythe or skype, more than happy to help when I have some time bud ^-^

Thanks hun

 

Hey man add me on skype. Safe.Services , I love helping people and talking to them. If you ever have any questions feel free to pm me!