This is just advice, yo.

Real talk guys, DO NOT come off as "thirsty" or desperate to a girl. They will use that as an advantage.

That's all that I really needed to say but here take this as an example:

10/10 girl and me talked a while ago, never dated or whatever - some middleschool bullshit. I message her today on twitter asking her what's up with her boyfriend, she states they're fighting so I go off and ask for a date and she goes yeah and everything seems fine and all - till we start texting and I'm responding like immediately after every message and it takes her 5 minutes. How fucking annoying. Basically I gave her advice on what she should do with her boyfriend (forgive him) MISTAKE. I'm an idiot. This bitch is a 10/10 why would I do that, I should have been the alpha cunt that went and told her to dump him but nope. Now I'm just not gonna text her till our "planned" date night and ask her if it's still on... Unless she texts me first.

Don't come off as easy to a girl - don't act desperate and don't give her advice on boys. Take this with a grain of salt, IDC. Just needed to vent to someone.

 

You asked her for a date when she's still together with her boyfriend? The fuck?

 

If she cheats him with you today will you honestly be at ease with this girl? How about tomorrow, when she cheats on you with someone else?

 

Oh man I could care less she's a solid 10/10 but I'll check out later and see if the date is still happening - will update u guys haha

 

Well if it's a fling and you don't have issues with the fact that she has a boyfriend then go for it heh. But bear in mind what I said if you're looking for something more serious. Looks are meaningless without personality (for relationships).

 

Yeah true bro... We'll see, maybe she'll like me more than her current BF LOL

 

Seriously... out of everything that's been said NOBODY caught this?

Man... You're in middle school. Don't be messin with a girls emotions at that age. You shouldn't even be acting like you're a player yourself. You're way too young for it and you're talking like all you want to do is "tap ass"... Like you're trying to be a pick-up artist...

 

You just said to not come out as thirsty. Texting her "Is our date night still planned" reaaaallly comes out as thirsty.

You made a mistake to even ask her on a date while she's with her boyfriend, and this would probably end up being your final move. You'll either end up "friendzoned" or won't see her, in my opinion.

I've been with my girlfriend since 2 and a half years, and at the time I wasn't "looking for girls". The Alpha male shit everyone wants in, to me, sounds silly. You have to simply act to a girl as you act to anyone, and not play any "I like 50 shades of grey too" shiet on her.

My advice:
Just be honest and try and not overwhelm a person if you have interest in said person. Casual talk will often lead to more, while forced pick-up talk leads to shit. I mean of course you might get screwed and what-not, depending on your "game", but I think keeping a minimum honesty makes you not regret past actions, not come out as an asshole and be more at ease with women/girls.

Make sure not to confuse one-sided friendships with 2-sided ones: that is what people most commonly make mistakes on and fall in this "friend" zone.

In this situation:
Let her sort things through with her boyfriend. You could still grab a coffee, pizza or hotdog (or whatever is chill where you live), but don't start making moves on her untill she sorts things out, in my opinion.

N.B. This is internet, I do not know your situation and might be totally wrong, you might end up dating her and whatnot, but I believe this could be some decent advice for you.
Good luck to you.

EDIT:

+1, very much agree'd.

 

If your still in middle school don't even sweat this stuff brotha, just keep doing your thing.

 

Oh hell no lol I'm in high school - I'm 17... I just claimed it to be "middleschool bullshit" from back in the day, aka like when I had no game or whatever.

 

Thanks a lot for the advice man, might just accept the fact that we aren't gonna do anything and move on. :'( haha

 

my moto: Fuck bitches get RSGP.

 

I know this is a thread where you're asking for 'help' but why you gotta rate girls man, how would you like it if you think that 10/10 called you a 2.5/10? feel pretty shit about urself?
My advice to you would be stop treating girls like they're numbers. Fair enough if you wana go for a 10/10 in ur eyes, but what if she had the personality of a fish?
Idk why you even bring this online to a forum section designed to help where you haven't even asked a question

 

You put yourself in a situation there matey.. ! shes taken atm?

 

This was more of a giving advice kind of thread, it's a support forum ain't it?

And if a girl wanted to rate me, she could. We can all lie to ourselves about how the outside doesn't count and that personality is what we view people for but it's all bullshit. Her personality is alright though, which I felt made her a 10/10, including looks.

 

At first when I read this thread I thought it was a troll. Now I don't think it is anymore. OP your advice is horrible.. I don't know why you think you give good advice. You sound young (early high school?) but keep doing what you are doing and you will gain a reputation among girls and no girl will want to be with you. No offence but you are a douche if you are knowingly trying to get with a girl when you know she has a boyfriend. Even worse, it seems like you are taking advantage of her vulnerability by asking her whats up with her boyfriend first. Being alpha is nice and all but being classy alpha is even better.

 

To be completely honest I didn't even know the status of their relationship, if she said something along the lines of "oh we're doing good" I would've replied "oh" but this is how it went:

Me: Sophia r you still dating that one kid?
Her: Uhh idk were in a fight.. Why
Me: U know what'd piss him off? Go on a movie date with your friend Ray tomorrow

And that was all for shits and giggles, I didn't even expect her to say yeah since they've been dating for so long but whatever, it never happened anyways. And you're right, back when I was nervous and shy when it came to girls, they would always somehow like me, I don't know... But it seems now that as soon as I gain confidence and approach them in more of a "give me your phone number" (not in that exact way, but being confident in what i'm saying kind of way) that most girls nowadays actually don't, they just say no.

Now back in the day I would go around and hit on girls and be a little bitch about it and go "Hey I saw your from down over there and I thought you were really pretty you think I could get your phone number?" Expressing no confidence, but damn it would work... Oh well hah

 

She probably just needs some time to sort shit out. Who knows what will happen

She could also ignore you because she wants to be with her bf

Or maybe not










Who knows?

 

Yeah yeah I know idc about her anymore whoever can just close this thread already haha