What to do?

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What to do?
  1. Unread #1 - Nov 21, 2014 at 8:17 PM
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    I met this girl in a class of mine at the beginning of this semester. We made eye contact the first day of class, and it was like something out of a movie. I got butterflies just looking at her.... she is extremely beautiful. The next class she was sitting in the seat next to where I sat, and we've talked every day since then.
    It's only been a few short months, but we've grown very close. She has told me things she has never told anyone else. We've stayed up all night together talking. We've kissed and done other things. Every time we talk, I feel things I haven't felt in a very long time. I can't help but feel nervous every time I look at her. She is truly beautiful.
    Here is the problem... I don't have a Facebook or any sort of social media. I was talking with a good friend of mine about this girl, and he happened to know her from another class of his. He looks her up for me, and this girl has a boyfriend... what??
    I don't know how to feel. I guess I just had this perfect image of her. Every second we spent together was incredible. If I had known she had a boyfriend, I would have never let myself feel this way about her. What should I do? Should I just not talk to her? The semester is ending soon, and I go to a very large University. There is a good chance I will never see her again. I suppose I could try to talk to her about why she did this, but I don't think it matters.
     
  3. Unread #2 - Nov 23, 2014 at 12:30 PM
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    Infatuations happen with new people. When you meet someone new it seems great and fresh and like nothing else you've ever felt.. but she's taken, and you will probably find someone like this again in your new semester. If she's serious about you then she needs to clear up her own situation and not lead you on in the mean time, and if not then she's obviously not trustworthy.
     
  5. Unread #3 - Nov 23, 2014 at 1:00 PM
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    Good point Roary. You're going to definitely find someone that does this again. I feel like I have seen this situation more than once. Just goes to show that it happens to a lot of people.
     
  7. Unread #4 - Nov 23, 2014 at 5:43 PM
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    Now I know on some social networks it says "In A Relationship", are you sure that she didn't put that because of you? Unless it has someone else's name that she is with you might want to ask her about that.
     
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    You should just tell her how you feel if you're getting the same vibe. as mentioned above, you'll encounter this situation a few times in your youth before sticking with someone eventually where it just works out.
     
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    Really tell her how u feel about her cuz if it's true love it's not worth it to let her go. But at the same time don't be the third party ask her about her situation and clear things up with her. If she rlly had a boyfriend already best is just wait or let her go cuz things won't work out with 3 ppl involved
     
  13. Unread #7 - Nov 25, 2014 at 4:52 AM
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    Shes a hoe isnt she, shes been kissing you and she has a bf? Or do you approve of that? Would you really want to be with someone like that?
     
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    ^ Hate to let you down man, but if she'd cheat on her boyfriend with you so easily. Chances are, she'd do the same to you... No worser feeling than your girlfriend cheating on you, don't risk it bro
     
  17. Unread #9 - Nov 25, 2014 at 6:06 AM
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    Speak to her about this and see what she has to say about it, if it's bad i'm sure you'll find someone else man.
     
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