Shitty Day

Before we start things off, I posted anonymously but I cba to keep posting like that so here's my thread before you start to read this: http://www.sythe.org/personal-support/1762334-having-problem-girls.html

So my intention for this week was to get the girl's number that is in my English class on/before Wednesday. Luckily my teacher moved our seats around and I sit right next to her where we talk quite a bit now. I decided last night (10/13/2014) that I was going to ask for her number today (10/14/2014). That being said, I was determined to do it until all the bullshit that happened today.

Today as I was leaving my house I was pulling out of my driveway and swiped the side of my mom's car, there's no real bad damage but there's a little of my paint on her car, and vice versa. It didn't really bother me but I felt like it was just going to be "one of those days". As I'm in my Weightlifting class (English is after this class) I'm on the squat rack and I dozed off and dropped the bar. I don't know why but it really bothers me, I know I can lift it but I feel like being so nervous about going to English almost had me faint.

Moving on after that class is over, I've defined today as probably being one of the shittiest days that I've been through in my Senior year so far, things weren't just going the way I planned it to be. I walk into English and luckily she was actually there today, but from all the bullshit that happened today I said fuck it and just completely blew it off to ask for her number. I don't know what I should do now, I could really use some advice.

 

There's always tomorrow.

 

Just waiting for that perfect timing, since your in high school I'm assuming you go there 5 days? One of those days your gunna feel like a boss, so you go in feeling good, make sure she's feeling good, everything is in check, no haters in your way (lol), then ask her casually when class is over. Life has it's ups and downs, but I think your better off asking her on a Friday so you could possibly talk to her over the weekend. Let us know how it goes.

 

I feel you, I have a lot of bad days and I seem to be unsuccessfull at everything I try to do, nothing works out in my favor. Just chill and ask her " Hey, can I have your number"

 

if i offered you $20 would you take it?

What about if i stood on it before i gave it to you? Scrunched it up and threw it on the ground.

You'd still take it? right?

exactly because at the end of the day its still $20 and it still holds its value no matter how much bad shit happens to it.

Same goes for you, if you have a bad day or something bad happens you don't lose your value. You aren't worthless.

If life crumples you up and steps on you your value stays the same. It shows how resilient you can be, so use that to turn your bad days around my friend

 

Yes what Darbs said is true. To add to that, there is always tomorrow. Wake up tomorrow and tell yourself that it will be a good day, and it will probably happen. Don't be nervous about going to English class and asking her, just say "I lost your phone number because I got a new one, could you please just give it again?" If you guys talk a lot, I would see no reason for her to say no.

 

Start fresh tomorrow or the day after. When the time is right it will happen. Hope things get better for you.

 

There are bad days just pick up the courage to do it when the days going right

 

yeah i know the feels

 

Okay so today I was determined to get her number. After telling the story to several people they said if you just ask her she'll give you her number. When I look at it as asking for someone's number my mind is just befuddled on how to ask for it. My intention on getting her number was having a conversation with her AND THEN asking for her number. (I find it weird to just go up and ask for her number without any communication beforehand) So I got to the classroom pretty early (she does as well) just to get there before most of the people in the class come swarming in. Well today she came in right as the bell rang and everyone was already sitting in their seats, so that plan didn't go well at all. Reminding you I sit next to her I asked her if she did the assignment that was due last night and she said no (My plan was to ask her for her number so I can message her whenever there are "assignments due" or "anything relating to school") Before I was going to say it she asks the teacher if it was due last night and the teacher responded yes, but she gave the students an extra day to do the assignment. There goes my chance on that one so I had to think of another idea.

I realized that I was just too scared to ask for her number, although I'm not sure why because I and everyone else knows that she would obviously give me her number. It's not like I'm asking her out right on the spot, just a minor thing. Everything in my day seemed to be going good until I hit that classroom. I think about going there and knowing what I'm going to say, but right as I get into that classroom I just sit there. I'll have a small conversation with her, but it's almost as if she can't hold down her side of a conversation (going back to I don't want to ask for her number without having somewhat of a conversation first). Also whenever I would say something the girl that sits behind me has to put her two cents into everything that I talk about, then has her own conversation with the girl I'm trying to talk to.

I'm not sure on what to do on this point, but I know if I don't do anything about it someone else will.

 

We can only provide so much advice and input, you have to take the initiative.

 

you should say you want to get to know her move, get the number. other than that girls love confidence and if you just asked for her number outright, no problems. just smiles

 

Don't get caught up in the moment, everyone has shitty days, some worse than others, keep your head up and still try for that girls number.

 

I wouldnt really use a school assignment as the ice breaker, be unique and confident man, stop caring what others will think

 

Wait till class is over, and say Hey let me get your number just incase we miss any assignments we can hit each other up. You got it!

 

they call it a shitty day for a reason, its only going to last 24 hours. then you have another chance

 

You are over analyzing it. Just keep making small talk until you start having realer conversations. Then it would be completely normal to ask for her number at that point because you would be friends. Then take it from there. If you make it your goal to get her number you will just stress about it. Let things happen naturally; just keep talking to her and eventually it will happen.

 

seems youre shy. if i were you i would say hey wanna catch a movie sometime or ask to hangout... then you could ask for snapchat/number etc. gl

 

man i now exactly how you feel

 

Sounds like a shitty day but don't let you dropping the bar withhold you from anything. This could also be you just making excuses for being nervous, but who knows OP. Ask her the next day, unless you have already.