I need help.

I'll keep this short.
Girlfriend of 3+ years left me 6+ months ago. I cannot get over this. It affects my life every day. I cannot afford consoling. I am lost with no direction. Anyone...

 

It'll take time before you get "over" her and it certainly wont be easy. Just go out and meet other girls, keep yourself busy and don't' occupy your mind with the thought of her.

 

Keep moving forward. I dealt with a break up last summer and it crushed me more than I anticipated. I thought about it for a while, and then I realized the uselessness of me dwelling on the past, so I continued on with my life.

It's definitely not easy since it was a 2 year relationship, but life goes on and you should too

 

It sucks, I can relate a lot. Time is the only healer. Just take it a day at a time and surround yourself with friends and keep busy doing what you enjoy.

 

did you get reasoning? closure is a real thing and if you don't get it you're going to go through some tough shit buddy.

 

you just have to keep your mind occupied. meeting another girl that you like would be good (if it goes the way you want). its not easy

 

Yes, Keeping your mind occupied is a very good source of getting over something so tragic.. I know it feels like theres a big chunk of your life missing right now.. but it will get better. Add my skype if you need be.

 

Do what makes you happy. There are a million other girls out there that are as compatable with you as this girl.

 

Start up something a new hobby would be excellent for getting over her and please go out with your friends/read a book/play!

 

Delete any pictures you have of her and don't think about the memories you had together. Focus your mind and time doing something that you can enjoy doing without having to think about your ex. In time you will get over her and probably end up dating someone else.

 

keep moving foward focus on yourself take care of yourself dont worry about her
if she really loved you and she knew how much it means to you she would stay and try to work it out with you
but for now focus on yourself mate ull get nowhere if u dont

 

Time is not changing much it seems. Day by day is definitely a term for this situation. I have met different girls. Even been on dates. No one compares. I barely enjoy myself on the dates. I do not think of her constantly but as soon as I do it is a hard time.

I had set my dreams with her just as I thought she did with me. When I lost her. I lost my dreams. I was very lost when she left.

I am having a hard time finding what I enjoy with the rest of my life stressing me out. I have a hard time making money and keeping ahead in that regard. I try my best to find time to have "fun" though.

I never did. She gave me a very brief text message and then cut me out completely. It has been rough.

Can't find another girl I enjoy being around as much as I enjoyed her company. I am trying tho but the feelings from that last relationship affects me a lot.

I need to find things to keep me busy again. A lot of the things I used to do are not enjoyable as they used to be.

I hope this is a correct statement.

I do not have anymore photos but the memories are hard to forget. She left a huge impression in my life.

I have a hard time taking care of myself since I am sad from this. I know you are right tho.

 

Its like that for a while man. It hurts and you think it will never get better but it always can and will if you let it.

Just take it a day at a time. Good luck man.

 

Online dating perhaps? Just a suggestion...

 

It's going to be hard man but just try to keep yourself preoccupied with other stuff and hopefully u can meet someone that will allow u to let go of the past

 

"I think the hardest part of losing someone isn't saying goodbye, but rather learning to live without them. Always trying to fill the void, the emptiness that's left inside your heart when they go."

I know it's hard but you WILL meet someone else, for now you just need to keep yourself busy and not think about the person.

 

do sports and keep your mind off things.

 

Just to start off, it's good that you only spent 3 years on a relationship as it could have been 4 or 5 or more. It could have been worse (it can always be worse, children for example, so be grateful for that).

The 1st thing I advice you to do is be objective and write pros and cons about your ex. If you have problems with that then ask your best friend to help you. If you don't have any friends left after the 3 years then that is the 1st con for your girlfriend. I'm pretty sure that the cons list will be longer than the pros (breaking up via sms is cheap). Also I'd imagine that the breakup wasn't out of the blue so think about that also. Maybe she just got a chance to trade up ( get a richer/better looking man). In that case you are lucky the leech left you.

Would really need more info on this woman to give you any advice.

Also don't believe the phrase "the are plenty fish in the sea". The sad reality is that there are very few quality women out there. Educated and beatiful or having just 1 of those traits doesn't mean that the woman is the right one for you or for any man. Avoid beautiful women who have no plans or brains as it's like walking on a landmine. I could give you all sorts of statistics but I'd rather give you the source where I got them. Download or just watch some of his shows about realationships or any of his shows and trust me you won't be dissapointed.
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCC3L8QaxqEGUiBC252GHy3w

 

Get yourself outside mate, I know it sounds strange, but if you find yourself playing online games, then do something! Go out partying, go to the local pub (assuming you're 18+), if not, just hang around with friends, meet a new girl, as the saying goes, theres plenty of fish in the sea, and if you haven't sorted things out yet, and got back together, then she is defiantly not the one for you.

Good luck man and keep cool, don't let things like this get you down.

 

Your advice is so wrong. "Don't think or try to fix the problems just go out and do it all over again" >_<
Also there is plenty of shit in the sea and a few good catches. Keep that in mind.