A girl I met over the weekend?

The titles not 100% true. We're in a group for one of our classes that is 90% group work, so we'll still be seeing each other and talking at least twice a week.

Over the weekend we were talking and we both had gone out partying so we were both drunk. She had me meet her down at the townhouses at like 1:30 and we just walked around aimlessly talking for 45 minutes. We went back to her room, started watching "The Wolf on Wall Street" and like 5 minutes after started having sex. Then later that night we both woke up and did it again.

Her roommate came home at 6:30 so I ended up leaving and forgetting my clothes, so I went back down the next day and instead of going out and drinking we stayed in her bed and watched movies / TV all day. The entire time we were cuddling and occasionally making out, then towards the end when I made my move we started doing more. Midway through, both naked and already have doing some stuff, she said she felt slutty for doing it and couldn't, so I ended up leaving. She was saying stuff like "Don't hate me" and things, and of course I don't.

The thing is, I actually like her. We talked a lot and have a lot of common interests and I have fun when I'm around her. How should I pursue her? Is it a positive sign she still did stuff with me the day after when she was 100% sober as opposed to wasted the night before?

I have her number, and we have class together on Mondays and Fridays.

What should I say to her? Should I tell her I understand why she didn't want to and that I won't expect anything if we were to start dating or anything? (Assuming I asked her out on a date and we hit it off or something)

Oh also, neither of us have cars on campus.. and there's literally nowhere I could actually go on a "date" with her, haha.

 

1 thing bro. this is a guarenteed thing to keep her. okay, when you left she was saying "you hate me" and all tht shit. she thinks you hate her now. its girl logic.you just gotta keep goin for it man. but dont just do it for sex. have some fuckin respect and i promise you shell love you. one thing that would really catch her off guard is just buy her some flowers and give them to her next time you hang out. be careful tho if she falls in love with you and you hurt her its gonna come back to bite you in the ass. the key to a good relationship is respect and communication. if you have both of those you have something real.best of luck man treat her right or ima have to come after you never make a lady cry

 

Dang dude your already in like flin, just hit her up like you said and tell her you weren't expecting anything from her. You said you met this girl recently? You could ask to go on a date like you said, and just say to take things slow this time around.

You said no places to date? How about like a pizza place or coffee? If that doesn't appeal to you - how about maybe some takeout and eat at her crib. (Or if your a cook, perhaps make something she might like?)

Anyways, you already got it in the bag brotha, just gotta keep maintain it

 

@Moob thanks for the reply! I replied to your PM

@Dual we 'met' when our class started and our groups got created, but we didn't talk on like a friendly basis until Friday. I think i'm gonna just try to talk to her, flirt with her, and make sure she knows i'm interested.

 

I feel the most important thing in a serious relationship is to respect one another. So if you really have feelings for her tell her you will always respect her decisions and just have a normal relationship where you go out for dates and stuff until she is ready for the next phase.

 

Just keep getting to know her, and eventually tell her how you feel, let us know how it goes!

 

Idk it seems kind of strange she was cool with having sex when she was drunk and meeting you at 1:30 in the morning, but when she was sober she had some sort of guilt about having sex with you. Maybe she recently broke up with her boyfriend and she is still talking to him possibly trying to work things out. Then again who knows. Maybe she didn't want to have sex so quick but being drunk it happened.

 

Pretty much this.

When you hang out with her, instead of making a move to have sex, try just holding her hand, kissing her and such. Girls are odd, no doubt about that, however though if you show her you don't care about just having sex it will show you do care about her. Do things she wouldn't expect, shit walk with her to somewhere like a local coffee place, or even invite her over to your place and order delivery chinese or something. xD Try and "woo" her and see where it goes from there. Keep us updated.

 

I would suggest speaking to her more socially, possible in the Monday and Friday classes, her only experience with you seems to be included with alcohol, so let her get to know you more in school and socially (without booze) and then slowly chip away

 

Just say that you're excited to see her again and that the past days have been great. Don't sound too attached or desperate.

 

So, a little update here:

The next night (Sunday night) I was studying in the library until around 12:15 AM, then walked back to my dorm. She was doing homework in the lobby so I decided to stay and talk. We were there til 5:15 in the morning. Most of the time we were talking / flirting around, then she took my phone and read a text I sent my friend about liking her a lot more than just a hook up buddy or something along those lines. She doesn't know I know that was the text I read.

I chased her around to get it, playfully, then we ended up making out again right in the lobby until a janitor came in and we ran.

The next night I asked her to come over because I found out she's a huge wrestling fan and I use to be into it, so it was something we could do together. She said she'd stop by for a "teenie tiny bit" which ended up being 3 hours of us cuddling in my bed. Then towards the end we ended up having sex again, but my roommate came and interrupted us so she left.

I told her something about going to the movies and dinner over the weekend, but I don't know if she remembers it as it was just sort of a side comment.

Things are looking pretty good. Right?

 

Only concerning thing here is why did she look through your phone? It's not like you're "dating" or have been for a long time....

 

I don't know. It wasn't like she didn't trust me or something.. I think it was just for fun.

 

Sex is always a good sign my friend. Always.

 

Things are looking very good since that update - any news on that dinner date?

 

It looks like she also likes you but don't wanna rush it, she doesn't want to be " easy ", let us know how it goes .

 

Not as of now. We hung out again last night with some of her friends but I didn't get a chance to ask her. She's in a sorority and i'm rushing a frat + we have school work.. so we're both pretty busy which is why I don't know if I should even ask her.

Also, valentine's day is next week, think I should get her something?

 

Something happened the 2nd time you were having sex, she must not have been enjoying it (no offense to you) thats why she stopped it, "feeling slutty" has to be the biggest joke you cant feel slutty when a penis is inside you the 2nd time.

did you rush fuck her?

Listen man let me explain. Your hands are your best friend, your tongue is your second best friend and your Penis is your last resort, especially if your trying to woo this girl.

Make out with her, watch some kissing vids if you cant do it right.

Use your hands to feel her up man while your making out. Kiss her body dude, ear especially bitches love that.

neck, shoulders, legs, stomach, back, ass, French kiss that vagina. The more you rub your hands inbetween her legs,(dont touch the vagina but you know soft stroke between her legs )
she will get wet and then you can eat that pussy, 99% of womens orgasms below 30 are from oral sex, so

dont blow it with your penis.

 

That's not why, because we fucked again 2 days later. I didn't even go in her when she said that. And, yes, I know how to kiss and how to eat out lol. trust me that's not the problem lol

 

Damn man, good stuff - Keep it up lol. Got the perfect opening for Valentines Day. I'll keep an eye on this thread.