Meeting someone from online?

So, I was drunk last week and my friends had me get this app "Hot or Not" where I've been talking to a few people. One lives like an hour or so away from me and keeps saying she wants to see me before I leave for college (on Sunday) She said we should go see a movie, and she obviously wants to have sex just from our talks (like, in the movie she wants to do stuff)

We've snapchatted and have seen each other, but I'm a little reluctant. I'd talk to her on the phone first to make sure she's not some 50 year old dude, and we'd be at the movies, I wouldn't be stupid about it and meet somewhere private.

Also, I've done a bit of research and found her FB / instagram which are both private. Her twitter isn't. Her twitter is the same girl I've been talking to, and has the same interests. The phone number she's using corresponds to the area she says she lives in.

What's the worst that could happen?

Note: The only reason I didn't delete the app the morning after is because I've had really strong feelings for my best friend, but she has a boyfriend and I can't get my mind off of her. So, using this as a distraction really.

 

HotorNot is for casual sex encounters usually, I hope you know that. The reason why I know this was because it used to be super popular back then. I suggest you go for it but be cautious of the situation and bring condoms. Enjoy!!

 

all you gotta do is meet in a public place, if she doesn't turn out to be a 50 y/o rapist, you're fine. also, if she's like, "yo come check this dark and sketchy ass alley wit me real quick" say no, for obvious reasons.

so yeah just remember to use a condom bruh, she could have syphilis and boom next thing you know it's 20 years later and yo blind... then you're really done... except you get one of those cool guide dogs... so it's still all good

 

@Dragon Balls Oh is it? I've just been talking to most people. I guess I'm good then

@Loyal True enough. As long we're not going anywhere sketchy I think it'll be okay. Those dogs bro...I'd love me one of them. May be worth it.

 

Yeah lol. I've gotten lucky with a couple females on there before. Just horny people that just wants to have NSA or become FOB if it turns out great.

 

We've already talked about doing stuff this summer, so I'm hoping for more of a Friends w/ Benefits type deal.

 

yeah nigga ur gettin it, i mean shit, if you gotta go blind, might as well be the result of a sexual encounter, right? n i bet u could get so much pity poon when ur blind and have one of them dogs. i mean, they're like the perfect wingmen. niggas aint even got to say anything n you got shawties hittin u up b, inquiring about yo G as hell guide dog, n then they have sex with u outta pity.

and u get $$$ from the government, for free. shit it's like life on easy mode homie. except that you're blind. really the only downside.

 

This guy. Smartest man alive. Nigga got shit on lockdown.

 

So basically, she wants the D.

She wants to meet in a public place.

You've stalked her.

Everything is A-okay.

And you're asking for help?

Go pound that bitch in her pooper because I can safely(irony) say she's got the herp.

 

I've met people on the internet before as "friends" before, it's no biggie unless you're extremely shy.
Don't forget the condom.

It's nice how you're doing something about your situation and not just sitting there crying because your "one-true love" now has a boyfriend. That's what most people do

You're making good decisions, keep'em up man

always has something good to say Respect++

 

Why haven't you two web cammed each other yet? Isn't it just faster to get the confirmation she is who she says she is by getting on cam?

 

Meeting people online is how you catch STD's or end up tied up in some dudes basement.

 

I met my boyfriend online, we spoke for a month before he flew to Australia to meet me. I didn't catch STD's nor did I lure him into my basement (or did he). 6 months after that, I packed up my life and moved to the United Kingdom to be with him.

Not saying that's how you'll end up, but you can't help who you fall for.

 

Don't listen to these goons besides Loyal.

My boy used that shit when he headed off to college to meet some chicks (Illinois) got laid like 3 times, joined a frat and now gets fucked up and laid all the damn time, I visited him a week ago.

There's some dime pieces on there, go and get yours homie.

 

How old are you?

 

@Kmjt - 18

 

Take her out to a public place with another friend of yours to make sure everything is alright. If she asks to go back to her place or something, DECLINE.

 

Go with a friend / meet in a public place. If that person is legit and actually into you they'll understand.

 

doesn't really matter how you meet, it's about if you are compatible and are in love.

 

Honestly people online are usually pretty sketchy. Especially on hot or not. I'm not going to tell you what to do but if you're going to meet up with her to do things in a movie theater she doesn't really sound like the type of girl I'd want to date personally. If you and your best friend are really suppose to be together then that will happen and I would just tell her how you feel.