My GirlFriend does the most -_-

She gets jealous at the most things and we fight all the time for the little things which later escalate . I need advise on how to make things better because sometimes I can't handle it anymore..

 

Break up with her. That sort of jealousy isn't sustainable or healthy in the long run. It's best to end it now.

 

We are on and off but we always end up together again, we have been together for 2 years.

 

Off and on relationships never work. Try looking for another fish in the vast ocean we call life.

 

That is ALL relationships. If you love her just ignkre it. Me and my gf are the same way. Jealousy is only a sign of love/caring OR Crazy Bitches.

 

This is bad advice. Just ignoring a problem like absurd jealousy isn't going to make things better, only worse. Jealousy is not a sign of a loving/caring relationship, but you're spot on about the crazy bitch part.

There is a fundamental problem with the relationship that isn't able to be fixed and will only get worse with time. The best option by far is to get out now.

P.S. diabl0, you should probably break up with your gf too.

 

I agree with you, she said she will change for the better which I call as BS but so far she has proved me wrong, I'll keep everybody informed .

 

Good luck man. It will probably be tough, but in the end, you'll definitely feel better. I wish I could go back in time, punch myself in the face, and give myself this same advice.

 

Jealousy is a weak quality, I've had a few ex gf's act the same way, looking through my phone while i'm in the shower, always asking what i'm doing when i'm not with them. I don't see your relationship lasting very long unless she learns to trust you.

 

do you see your relationship going anywhere? if your answer is no, keep the above posters advice keen in ya mind, cause it's definitely time to cut her off... no sense in putting so much effort into something you don't even think will work out, unless you really, really love her. or she's rich. haha

 

Yeah bro I do lover her and we have been throughout tough times but she always there having my back which I respect the most.

 

Okay, no offence but a lot of these replies are just stupid... instead of "bro just break up with her" Why don't you do the obvious and talk to her? Explain to her the situation from your point of view, and explain how you feel about her and say you value her more then that. You should come to somewhat of a mutual agreement on this, if not then you can resort to the obvious outcome.

PS. I'm completely against the whole "break up get back together" bullshit. You're either with someone, or not. May I suggest taking breaks? As many couples do this, it's not breaking up, its just a cut-off connection between the pair allowing time for both parties to get their shit straight, and when you come back from it, you come out stronger.
Sorry for the long run on sentences.

PSS: The entire reason this generation never sees long lasting relationships is because of the people above... refusing to work out issues, and just moving on and on, until eventually realizing they're going to be alone till death due them part . But obviously you have to be compatible, although that doesn't mean everything has to work perfectly, you should be flexible as should she. If she puts through your shit, you should do the same for her !

Goodluck bud

 

Talking to her wont do anything tbh. It's in her nature to feel whatever she is feeling. Although it can be hard (I'm going through it too) it's better to break up and move on sooner than later because these sorts of arguments will most likely not stop.

 

Leave her. Doesn't seem to be a healthy relationship.

Although, relationships make me sick anyways. I'm not one to be on a leash.

 

this is real good advice, but i'd just like to say this: none of us follow any sort of ideology that the second you're having relationship issues you should just break it off instead of resolving them. that's an awful way too live and you're definitely going to die alone if this is the case like you mentioned. however, what most of us suggested is that he should break up because they don't sound compatible together and are having what seems to be beyond normal relationship issues. having jealousy problems, fighting over little bullshit, and constantly breaking up and getting back together are all signs that a relationships on it's last legs, especially if it's making both parties miserable. finding someone you get along with way better, who can tolerate your shit + vice versa, and isn't getting constantly jealous would result in a much happier relationship that'll last longer in the end.

ya dig?

 

Thanks everybody, things are improving slowly.

 

If you have Skype or anything it will be easier for me to help you if you ever need any. I broke up with my girlfriend a month ago. I was with her for 4 years and 7 months. I understand most of these issues based on personal experience.

 

In my signature , thanks. <3

 

Acts and words of jealousy from a girl are to test your love for her. She also wants to see how you will react to it

The best choice is usually to agree and amplify
ex)
Girl: why were you staring at that other women?
You: (in a clearly joking manner) are you kidding? look at the knockers on that thing!

But in your case, I'd recommend that you sit her down in a nice and quiet place
and tell her that you're offended that she's having doubts about you in the sweetest way possible.

note) it's hard to give advice when you don't give enough details; advice from somebody with good intention could end up destroying your relationship.

 

Jealousy is a sign of love as she's afraid she might lose you one day. However if she becomes too possessive and like restricts your movements I think that's where you should draw the line. These things should be discussed seriously between the two of you especially if your considering her as a life partner. Gl buddy