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noooooooo

 

15 is still quite young so there's no real big problem here. If you're uncomfortable with your body then as you said, exercising is a really good idea. The easiest way for you to get a girlfriend would probably be to try and befriend more girls? That way, once they get to know you, they might see you as a potential boyfriend. Do you have many female friends at school, at the moment?

 

You're still young so have a lot of time. I wouldn't really get a girlfriend until you're like 17/18 because thats when you start to become a bit mature. Exercising would help and it's scientifically proven that when you excercise, your body releases hormones that make you feel better and more confident which would help with your situation.

Like Anthony said, the more female friends you have the higher potential of a future girlfriend. Another thing don't force things with any girls, just go with the flow and if it's meant to be it will happen for you.

 

Don't go looking for it, it will come on it's own. Just be sociable and enjoy your teenage years, don't get bogged down by relationships already.

 

I have to disagree with this. If you don't go looking for it, it'll probably not come easy.
However I have to agree with the enjoy your teenage years part, you're young man, why u need a girlfriend this early?

 

If you go out interacting with people intentionally looking for a girlfriend, more often than not you end up in a forced relationship just because.

Let the feelings come naturally and you'll be happier and last longer.

 

That^
Relationships at your age are nothing. (an extremely low percentage will like go on to actually mean something) Honestly just do what Roary said. Be social and eventually you'll see which girls you like and you should be able to notice when they like you too.

I used to go out trying to get a girlfriend when I was your age and it was all just nonsense. But it was only after school I didn't really give a shit. I wasn't even looking for a girlfriend, then all of a sudden I invited her out and we hit off and now we love each other..

 

Don't rush things, and don't get pushed by peer pressure. Just because everyone else has a bf / gf doesn't mean you have to as well. I'd at least wait until you're around 16 before looking for someone, but everyone finds someone at different ages.

 

I agree with almost everyone else that you shouldn't feel pressured to get a girlfriend. If you do just for the sake of caving to peer pressure, it's not going to be a relationship worth much anyway. Just try to be friends with more girls, and you'll feel more confident when the time comes to ask one out.

As far as the exercise, go for it no matter what! You'll feel better and more confident as you slim down and shape up

 

I never went looking for my gf, I don't even remember how I fell in love with her. It's been 4 and a half years so I would agree to what Roary said .

 

I say you should focus on school and life before you consider getting a gf. Your still young, don't get heartbroken and become one of those emofags.

 

Alright first: You dont need a girlfriend at 14,You should really focus in school.
Two:If you insist,You should really work out. Most girls in highschool are shallow and im going to be real,The outside matters aswell.
Dont be a push-over because if you end up trying too much to be nice,You're going to end up like one of those people whining about how they always get friendzoned. And alot of stories like that is because the guy is too shy to ask and thinks hanging out in mcdonalds is a date.
Oh and get a girl who you're comfortable with.
Tl;dr: Dont date at 14 but if you insist
Looks actually matter,espicially in highschool
Be confident,Not a pushover
Be yourself,I know its cheesy but just do it.

 

Urgh I have no idea why people want girl friends.

Get a puppy they're better.

 

Yeah, I was actually near on getting slim as I said if I didn't just get used on eating lunch on a fast-food restaurant everyday.

Thanks.

I don't know but I think I really do need a girlfriend but as I saw some of the other members' thoughts they shared to me. I think I really don't need a gf this time.

If I get a girlfriend at my current age, I'm literally not going to ask her for a date. Most people on my same age here doesn't ask their partners to go on a date..

 

id do it, get yoself in shape, get a girlfriend, learn some solid techniques for wheelin' chicks. it'll all benefit you later on.......

 

Man, at your age, don't sweat it. Girls come and go. Find a method that works for you. Biggest piece of advice I can offer is this: Don't give them a ton of attention. It sounds dumb, but it works. If you devote all your time to pleasing her then she'll get it in her head that "Oh, well I don't even have to try".

Make it to where you ALWAYS have the upper hand in any relationship, even if she doesn't know it. Make her txt you first, make her ask if you can hang out, etc.

Seriously man, this works.

Best of luck.

 

On a more serious matter, fast food every day? Cut that shit out, you will give yourself heart disease.

 

I think this sums it up the best. The best relationships are the ones that just happen rather than those that are forced.

 

Roary summed it up. The best relationships come naturally. Let it come, don't rush it.

 

Let it be bro you will feel it sometime.