Girl problems really need help!!!

Mod delete please.

 

I.. I don't even know where to begin..
I can start by saying don't you dare get into a relationship, I can tell just by reading all this that you will end up hurting her, do the right thing and tell her straight out that you have no intentions to have a relationship and if she still wants sex then it's a bonus, right?

It's human nature to want someone to call their own, to have that comfort of someone but you also want to go fuck every girl you see, so until that feeling is gone, don't get into a relationship when you're in the army you'll forget about her, just again, don't break her heart by leading her on.

 

>no way am I ready for a relationship of anysort.

There is your answer. Though make it pretty clear to these girls it's a no strings attached friends with benefits situation.

 

If you know you're not ready for a relationship, why are you asking other people if you should be in a relationship? Don't mess with girls' heads; it's wrong, and you could end up with some nasty repercussions along the way.

 

lol what the fuck did i just read..

You're obviously in no mental state of mind to be in a relationship, attempting one would be emotionally unstable and unfair the the girl.

>I'm not ready for one even though I really like her
>no way am I ready for a relationship of anysort

The fact that you're asking for advice in this situation tells me you're not ready for a relationship, nor do you have the physical and emotional connection for her.

You would know if you wanted to be in a relationship or not, there wouldn't be a choice. Have fun while you're young, once you meet someone you feel certain feelings for, you'll know.

 

I'd have to agree with everyone else. You're not ready for a relationship until you sort yourself out and get your head out your ass. You should tell the girl the truth- that you aren't ready to commit to a relationship. As for the 'I'm not cocky'.. the following sentence after that completely contradicts your statement. 'but basically I can get almost any girl I want to..' You sound like a complete and utter air head if I'm completely honest. Maybe you should realise that there is more to a girl then her looks '6/10' like that really matters? Clearly you had a connection to her and if your friends judge you on that, then what kind of friends are they?

Just my point of view.

 

You're not ready for a relationship but you could be beneficial friends if you really enjoy the sex that much, but make it clear, very clear. Even if you are going to beneficial friends, pick one. But normally being beneficial friends always lead to one person liking another and then it gets awkward.

Good luck

 

Okay yeah I was really drunk when I wrote it so it might not be the best English or grammar in the OP.

Anyway the advice was really good thankyou. Ill definently tell her tonight that I only want to be friends again...