How to show a Girl you really really like her?

So through my hole Primary and High School time I was always confident in talking to girls I was always the guy any one could talk to and well to be honest I was the "Nice Guy" I hate attention but love to be in it. I love helping, Talking and stuff like that I don't want to sound cocky or anything like that but there was always girls that liked me... But not in that way. Sure they loved to go out with me and hug me and kiss me and what not but none lasted more then a few months. I was told by almost every single girl I went out with that I sweet talk other girls and stuff like that, but I never intended it to be like that, Like I said above I just like to be nice and help.

If any of you have read my weight lose thread you will know that there is this one girl that I haven't seen in a few years, she added me on FB and we kinda went from there...

Now to the point... I don't want to be this "Nice Guy" any more, on the same page I don't want to be a total dickhead either... I feel as though every time a girl talks to me or flirts with me its not because I'm good looking, tall or have big muscles, it's because they no I wont hurt them.. Don't get me wrong I would never go out of my way to hurt any one.

But now I feel as though I kinda have a fresh start with this girl and I have always liked her from the day I seen her, I just want to know how well how do I stop being the nice guy and start being the guy she likes. I no that I will never stop being nice but I really don't want this girl to see me as "the guy that does the same things for me as he would any one else".

If you can understand where I am coming from what do I do?

 

You need to act faster.
All those girls that hug and kiss you, they like you by they they aren't getting anything from you. Try kissing them back or something.

Imagine going after a girl for months but she just never does anything with you, in the end you'd think "fuck this, no point in me trying." that's exactly what they're thinking.

 

Just say it how it is, no need to beat around the bush. If she feels the same way I'm sure she'll let you know.

 

just take it easy dont rush into anything im the same way TBH i know how it feels there is this girl im crushing on right now and we have been talking for quite some time just try and keep track of her schedual make her be the one waiting for you to make the move know when she is going to be free for your text and stuff